My sisters and her best friend have known eachother since they were 5 years old, they are now both 28. She is like another sister to me. Anyway, she is engaged, getting married this October. Her and her FH had their precanna this past weekend, and when the priest asked how many people each of them had been with, she was blown away by her FH's answer. She had no idea he had so many partners before they met. I guess they never had 'that talk'. Anyway, she is flipping out now saying she doesn't know if she can go through with it, what else has he lied about, yada yada yada. I don't really think it is a lie since she never asked, but that is my opnion.
What do you girls think? What would you do if you were in her situation?
Also, I hadn't a clue the priest asks you how many partners you have had! Not that I am hiding anything from FH.....
Ronnie&Theresa
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Kim.. I wonder if I know him. I spent aLOT OF years in SF .. Knew all of the dancerssssssss..
I AM SHOCKEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD..
FM!
LisaT
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our priests (one in SF and one in NY) knew were living together and knew we had sex (he'd have to assume so, right?), but never asked about it!
Jordan
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I always showed them a thing or 2...just some weren't worth my time. Love em & leave em!
Kim921
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cp0329....lol, not even a funny subject, but I literally just lol'ed about getting his rocks off somewhere else. My boss just asked me to share the joke.
dubliner
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I am shocked that this was brought up at Precana-but as RT says - it was before her time, and if they never discussed it, did he really lie?
Kim921
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T-FM Right back attcha babe!
OctBride03
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first of all, I am SHOCKED that a Priest would ask that question at pre-cana.
second of all, something like that is something FH and I discussed WAY back in the old days!
third of all, I don't think it would really bother me. what's passed is passed, IMO
Jordan
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Kim...sorry - I've been told I have a way with words. No, not funny topic, but levity is always good.
DaniRN
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Sorry but I don't think it's the Priest's buisness to know how many people you've slept with in the past
butterfly20
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well she cant change the past.. so its only a matter of how well she can deal with it... I didnt think they asked questions like that at precana