what would you do?
Here's the low down...
My best friend is getting married, i am in her bridal party...her best friend is the MOH.
I am not particularly fond of her best friend because she is FLAKY!
Out of our whole friend group there are 10 people 4 of them are couples, and two single guys. We decided this year, with two couples getting married and two couples with babies we should do a secret santa. (every friday we all get together to have dinner) we all decided that we all needed to be at this one friday night dinner to pick our secret santa's and the 'MOH' decided last minute that her and her boyfriend cant make it. So My Best Friend txt her and said that maybe she shouldn't be included in the secret santa and that her and her fiance would just exchange with them. The 'MOH' insisted on being included and how she's positive they will be able to make it to the exchanging friday night dinner. NOW they cant make it to the FND where we will be exchanging the gifts. Of course just my luck i got her boyfriend in the name pick. If one of them got me i wouldn't care if they didn't get me anything, but someone else got her and will most def. be buying her a gift so them not coming to the exchange is really unfair. NOT TO MENTION THE FACT THAT IF WE WERE DOING A REG XMAS I WOULDN'T EVEN BUY THEM GIFTS.....
Now this is my best friend's best friend....but i am fed up with how she is so inconsiderate....would you girls approach your best friend and tell her how you feel..or just leave it alone?
My best friend is getting married, i am in her bridal party...her best friend is the MOH.
I am not particularly fond of her best friend because she is FLAKY!
Out of our whole friend group there are 10 people 4 of them are couples, and two single guys. We decided this year, with two couples getting married and two couples with babies we should do a secret santa. (every friday we all get together to have dinner) we all decided that we all needed to be at this one friday night dinner to pick our secret santa's and the 'MOH' decided last minute that her and her boyfriend cant make it. So My Best Friend txt her and said that maybe she shouldn't be included in the secret santa and that her and her fiance would just exchange with them. The 'MOH' insisted on being included and how she's positive they will be able to make it to the exchanging friday night dinner. NOW they cant make it to the FND where we will be exchanging the gifts. Of course just my luck i got her boyfriend in the name pick. If one of them got me i wouldn't care if they didn't get me anything, but someone else got her and will most def. be buying her a gift so them not coming to the exchange is really unfair. NOT TO MENTION THE FACT THAT IF WE WERE DOING A REG XMAS I WOULDN'T EVEN BUY THEM GIFTS.....
Now this is my best friend's best friend....but i am fed up with how she is so inconsiderate....would you girls approach your best friend and tell her how you feel..or just leave it alone?