I would definitely get rid of the bad friend. And if the other girl can set up thats great for you
linda_art
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So I get a text from her this afternoon and it reads: I believe almost 4 weeks is enough... Lets talk this week
HAHAHAHHAHAA, now I just have to laugh. Are you FU$King kidding me? Thats what she writes? Ewe. Obviously I have to talk to her to demote her...
Before she said nasty shi+ and I spoke with her about stepping it up and being more involved, I suggested things she can do, who in my family to reach out to, etc. Actions speak louder than words. Damn , do I wanna go off on here about all the shady nasty ****, just to vent... But, as much as I think it'll make me feel better, it's pointless. No need to spread any more unlovingness, I think her adultering *** spreads enough.
linda_art
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Posted by LBUDA
I'd get rid of her....why does your FH not want uneven numbers? I wouldnt think it was bad to have two guys and one girl...
cause he's silly! Hes so involved with the wedding planning, all of it, that im not gonna make an issue out of it. Im grateful for his help and involvement.
bride2be2012
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I would do B! You need to do what's best for you and that sounds like the best option! Don't second guess yourself!
wishingwell1230
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I'm pretty sure I remember hearing part of this story already and recommended you consider cutting this person if she is really that horrible/negative a person. So I'd go with B.
Life is too short to include people in it that make your life miserable! I know you've been friends for 15 years but people change and it sounds like from your descriptions of her its not someone you really respect anymore.
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B
You dont need that stress, this is supposed to be a happy time. Good luck!