What would you do? HELP

Original post by KellyBride

Feb 11, 2006 07:48 PM

One of my friends from grad school is getting married. We are friends that speak via email, phone, or through voicemail every two weeks or so. Since we both started working & she moved, we only get together 2-3 per year. She is invited to my wedding & coming. I am invited to her wedding too. However, I just found out my 10 year High School reunion is the same night as her wedding. What do I do? I want to go to both but that is not a possibility

Mrs. Powell Posted: Feb 12, 2006 09:13 AM

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I would go to the wedding.

Preshy7 Posted: Feb 12, 2006 11:15 AM

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see i am not into my reunion so id go to the wedding, however, you seem to want to go to the reunion.
go to that you want! i am sur she will understand if you cant go to the wedding. i would just tel lher that you are helping to plan the reunion and your presence is pretty much mandatory (or something like that)

JennJay Posted: Feb 12, 2006 02:07 PM

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The most important day of your freinds life, vs your 10 yr reunion....people you haven't seen in ten years... and probably won't see in another ten.... I don't know... for me it wouldn't be a decision... My friends feelings always come first.

Jennie0898 Posted: Feb 12, 2006 02:11 PM

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Posted by JennJay

The most important day of your freinds life, vs your 10 yr reunion....people you haven't seen in ten years... and probably won't see in another ten.... I don't know... for me it wouldn't be a decision... My friends feelings always come first.

Exactly.

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Feb 12, 2006 03:30 PM

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Do you basically all of the friends that you care to see from high school? If I were in your position, I'd skip the reunion because the people I care to speak to from high school are the people I see/talk to often enough.
It's really tough - I hope that you make the right decision for you!