What would you do???? *UPDATE*

I'm think about it if it was the other way around.
I know that I would be really PISSED if my FH told me he couldn't go to my friends wedding because he has to go to a bachelor party. I think the wedding is more important, you can always have a mini spa day, or a nice meal somewhere with your friend since your missed her party.

Maybe you could take her to a spa or something the morning of her bachlorette party or for manicures and pedicures so she doesnt feel to bad and you tried to spend some of the day with her and see if you can get some of the girls to come.
But, you have an obligation to go to the wedding

well what time does the wedding start, maybe you can do both like hlaf the wedding and then the rest your friends party.
HTH

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Posted by Irishny8

you girls are right im going to go to the wedding. Thanks for all the input.... I'm going to tell her in a couple of days..... There was a reason why it had to be on this particular day and it had to do with one of our friends having her bachelorette party on the day she wanted .... ITS A LONG STORY..... but i will tell her i cant make her party..... wish me luck! Thanks again you girls are the best!

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I am so glad ! .. I really think your making the right dedcision!!

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Posted by Tori9299

I'm think about it if it was the other way around.
I know that I would be really PISSED if my FH told me he couldn't go to my friends wedding because he has to go to a bachelor party. I think the wedding is more important, you can always have a mini spa day, or a nice meal somewhere with your friend since your missed her party.

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that is such a good idea! i'm totally going to suggest that! thank you!!!!!!