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What would you have done in this situation?

halloweenbride04 Posted:

What would you have done in this situation?

So today, one of my colleagues had a meeting with a gentleman that she met a networking event. She brought him into my office to meet me, so I came out from behind my desk, stretched out my hand to shake his and his eyes go straight to my chest! So I give his hand a firmer squeeze to kind of say 'my eyes are a few inches further north a$$hole', so he makes eye contact for a brief moment and then begins to stare again! I couldn't even tell you what he was saying I was just so beside myself. I know you're probably wondering what I was wearing. I was wearing a silk sleeveless, V-neck top (from NY & Co.) totally appropriate for the office and I don't have huge boobs (not that it would excuse him from starring).

I was telling DH when I came home and he said I should have said something....but what?? What should I have done? If I were in a bar or somewhere non-professional I'd call the guy a **** head and walk away.

What would you do?
lilqtny Posted:

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I have NO boobs so I can't say I've been there but I would have *if I did ever have this problem* kind of bend at the knees so that my eyes meet his and do as you did, squeeze the hand harder.

palebride Posted:

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I would have done exactly what you did - not said anything, but I would have been fuming inside.

I used to work in an office and the accountant would come in and talk to me, while staring at my legs as I sat at my desk....what an icky feeling
MrsP2Be Posted:

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Ugh, I usually just kind of tilt my head and give them a 'what the hell are you doing?' kind of stare. I never can say anything.
suven Posted:

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My colleagues and I are all in HR, so I guess it would be a little easier for me to just tell her, 'your man there was VERY inappropriate. He needs to not come around this office anymore'

janwinterbridejoy Posted:

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i would have asked if he planned on visiting an eye doctor anytime soon because he seems to have a problem with his eys
beautyq115 Posted:

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That has happened to me....and I was so embarrassed that I said nothing

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