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Whats wrong with me?

divabride Posted:

Whats wrong with me?

I was driving home from work last night and there was a white rolls royce with a bride and groom in it. I was so happy for them and I was wondering if she was a fellow LIWB. Anyway, as I got closer they started kissing and it was just so beautiful. All of a sudden I started crying. How weird is that?

julz33 Posted:

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That would make me cry too. Ever since I got engaged I became a lot more sensitive.

pinkstar025 Posted:

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not weird at all..i cry every time i watch a wedding story( well a lot of times :)...)..jsut think that will be you soon!

butterfly20 Posted:

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i think we all start getting emotional... seeing others i think ' that will be us in Xdays'

babybride Posted:

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I would have probably done that too. I have been an emotional wreck lately!

Jen_n_Dale Posted:

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You are normal!!!!
NYCMeghan Posted:

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ok, here's the pessimist chiming in. And I have thought about this A LOT. On the one hand its happiness - you see a bride and groom, knowing that it will be you soon and the tears are joyful. But in a society that doesn't always value marriage, seeing a new marriage begin is a bit fearful - will they beat the odds when so many others have failed? And then being the true pessimist I am I take it a step further - if they don't make it does that make the odds better for me and my FH? Not that I EVER want to see a marriage fail - but ultimately some have to and I don't want it to be mine.

But please don't take me for a vicious, evil bride. I'm on this site because I want all of our marriages (as well as weddings) to be wonderful. But I think maybe I have taken one too many psychology courses. And there is still a little optimist in me that makes me cross my fingers for every bride, on here or not, so maybe I'm not that evil after all...
september2004 Posted:

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Posted by NYCMeghan

ok, here's the pessimist chiming in. And I have thought about this A LOT. On the one hand its happiness - you see a bride and groom, knowing that it will be you soon and the tears are joyful. But in a society that doesn't always value marriage, seeing a new marriage begin is a bit fearful - will they beat the odds when so many others have failed? And then being the true pessimist I am I take it a step further - if they don't make it does that make the odds better for me and my FH? Not that I EVER want to see a marriage fail - but ultimately some have to and I don't want it to be mine.

But please don't take me for a vicious, evil bride. I'm on this site because I want all of our marriages (as well as weddings) to be wonderful. But I think maybe I have taken one too many psychology courses. And there is still a little optimist in me that makes me cross my fingers for every bride, on here or not, so maybe I'm not that evil after all...



I thought I was the only pessimist
AJsMommy122 Posted:

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I think the same thing!! everytime I see a B2B somewhere I am soo tempted to ask if they are from LIW?? lol

divabride Posted:

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I'll be honest with you, my first thought was: Is she a LIWB? But when I saw them kiss, it was just sooo beautiful. He put his arm around her, he brought her close to him, and he kissed her. Now I feel the tears coming up. But then after the kiss he rested his head on her shoulder and I just got the feeling that they were so happy with each other. That's when I completely lost it. It one of those moments you'd wish the photographer would catch, it was just perfect. But not once did I think of them getting divorced or anything. Its just a beautiful thing to see love. In this harsh world, you dont often get a glimpse of true love.

BillysBride Posted:

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I would have been the same. lately I've been very emotional

kimmie Posted:

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I dont think there is anything wrong with you except you are a happy bride to be. We are all like this I think. Everytime I watch someone getting married on TV I cry because I see myself there.

Smolokoff Posted:

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I was at a concert last night (Toby Keith) and I had to fight back tears at one point. Not a mushy song, I just turned and looked at FH and got all choked up and emotional. It was funny, in a weird way!

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