happen? why is it that now when ever we post something that someone may have a problem with ( and lets face it all these women 1 board there will be problems) we have to have disclaimers or prepare our selves for drama and nastiness? isnt an honest oppinion the best one you can get?
thats very true.. its sad actually, some people just can't take honesty though
it's true. i haven't been posting for long but i definitely watch what i say. it's just not worth the backlash when i'm pretty sure no one means any harm!!
I hear you!! I do it to cover my behind so that people know there is no malice behind ANY of my threads OR my posts.
me too - i always find myself saying now, no offense to anyone!
Posted by futuremrspalomino
thats very true.. its sad actually, some people just can't take honesty though
Posted by yelley77
I hear you!! I do it to cover my behind so that people know there is no malice behind ANY of my threads OR my posts.
Posted by kellybean
Posted by yelley77
I hear you!! I do it to cover my behind so that people know there is no malice behind ANY of my threads OR my posts.
this was by no means aimed at you lol...I just think its a shame that it has become this way
Posted by davenjess
me too - i always find myself saying now, no offense to anyone!
Posted by dajc23
Posted by davenjess
me too - i always find myself saying now, no offense to anyone!
yes it seems to be everyone has to edit themselves when they speak. this is a place for girls to come, get advice about weddings and life in general. I think it should be expected that you're not going to always get the answers you want to hear. So you deal with it and take it for what its worth, or you move on and just carefully figure out what you want to say. I'm one who speaks whats on my mind, i dont hold back (not sure if thats good or not lol) but its life.
I enjoy joking around and I dont take offense to much, I brush alot off and its completely ok. I guess everyones different
Posted by yelley77
Posted by dajc23
Posted by davenjess
me too - i always find myself saying now, no offense to anyone!
yes it seems to be everyone has to edit themselves when they speak. this is a place for girls to come, get advice about weddings and life in general. I think it should be expected that you're not going to always get the answers you want to hear. So you deal with it and take it for what its worth, or you move on and just carefully figure out what you want to say. I'm one who speaks whats on my mind, i dont hold back (not sure if thats good or not lol) but its life.
I enjoy joking around and I dont take offense to much, I brush alot off and its completely ok. I guess everyones different
I am offended by your post.![]()
I really don't care anymore. Everyone feels they have the right to be offended but never know when they're being offensive. I'm sick of it all and if I say something that offends someone, so be it, I'm sure they've offended others in the past too.
Posted by MikeandJess
I really don't care anymore. Everyone feels they have the right to be offended but never know when they're being offensive. I'm sick of it all and if I say something that offends someone, so be it, I'm sure they've offended others in the past too.
I just feel like its best to be honest..if something is IMO ugly Im not going to be mean and say oh my god thats fugly but nicley said it could be more helpful then harmful
Posted by dajc23
Posted by davenjess
me too - i always find myself saying now, no offense to anyone!
yes it seems to be everyone has to edit themselves when they speak. this is a place for girls to come, get advice about weddings and life in general. I think it should be expected that you're not going to always get the answers you want to hear. So you deal with it and take it for what its worth, or you move on and just carefully figure out what you want to say. I'm one who speaks whats on my mind, i dont hold back (not sure if thats good or not lol) but its life.
I enjoy joking around and I dont take offense to much, I brush alot off and its completely ok. I guess everyones different
Posted by Mizzdimple
Well, you can tell by the way I use my walk,
I'm a woman's man: no time to talk.
Music loud and women warm.
I've been kicked around since I was born.
And now it's all right - it's O.K. -
And you may look the other way.
We can try to understand the New York Times' effect on man.
Whether you're a brother or whether you're a mother,
You're stayin alive, stayin' alive.
Feel the city breakin' and ev'rybody shakin'
and we're stayin' alive, stayin' alive.
Ah, ha, ha, ha, Stayin' Alive.
Posted by Mizzdimple
Well, you can tell by the way I use my walk,
I'm a woman's man: no time to talk.
Music loud and women warm.
I've been kicked around since I was born.
And now it's all right - it's O.K. -
And you may look the other way.
We can try to understand the New York Times' effect on man.
Whether you're a brother or whether you're a mother,
You're stayin alive, stayin' alive.
Feel the city breakin' and ev'rybody shakin'
and we're stayin' alive, stayin' alive.
Ah, ha, ha, ha, Stayin' Alive.
