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When did the bulk of the responses come???

beautyq115 Posted:

When did the bulk of the responses come???

I only have about 1/3 of the responses back....I hate people who wait until the last minute and I am sure there are people we are going to have to hunt down....3/4 of the BP still have not sent theirs back I know they are coming....but are they bringing guests...who the hell knows
Happybride2005 Posted:

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i didn't get my own sister's response card until the last week. she called she first lost it

hmpena Posted:

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They kind of came in drips and drabs the whole time. However I think we got a lot the last 2 weeks before the response date.

CLMon7906 Posted:

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i am guessing at the end. in the beginning it would be 1 or 2 at a time, then it became 1 or 2 a day and now it's pretty steady at 3 every other day...but today we got 7 or 8!!!!

Jen2999 Posted:

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I am getting one or two each day and then skipping a few days.. so annoying!

shellnroc Posted:

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Yea, they do come in drips and draps. I am still waiting for 5 more and it's over a week after my due date. My FSIL is going to give those people a call since it's their family.

So, to answer your initial question a week before the due date I received 20 in the mail. I was shocked!!!
People always wait for the last possible minute.
beautyq115 Posted:

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Posted by Jen2999

I am getting one or two each day and then skipping a few days.. so annoying!



The skipping days annoy me Today I got none
Jen2999 Posted:

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Posted by beautyq115


Posted by Jen2999

I am getting one or two each day and then skipping a few days.. so annoying!



The skipping days annoy me Today I got none



Well think of it this way...

I sent mine out like a week before you and you have more than me!
beautyq115 Posted:

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Posted by Jen2999


Posted by beautyq115


Posted by Jen2999

I am getting one or two each day and then skipping a few days.. so annoying!



The skipping days annoy me Today I got none



Well think of it this way...

I sent mine out like a week before you and you have more than me!



Well I have included myself, Tim and our parents in that count
Jen2999 Posted:

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Posted by beautyq115


Posted by Jen2999


Posted by beautyq115


Posted by Jen2999

I am getting one or two each day and then skipping a few days.. so annoying!



The skipping days annoy me Today I got none



Well think of it this way...

I sent mine out like a week before you and you have more than me!



Well I have included myself, Tim and our parents in that count



Yea I didnt include us because I sent myself an invite and rob hahahahhaa.

My parents accidentally SHREDDED the invite!!!!!

I have to give them a new response card. lol
SweetCin704 Posted:

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Kathleen, when is your RSVP date?

kmkelly Posted:

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I'd love to see more on this too.

My response date is one week from today (5/22), and I'm waiting on literally 1/2 of my guest list, about 100 people. THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE !!!!!!

PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME THIS HAPPENED TO YOU AND IT TURNED OUT OKAY !!!!!!!!
BJandDan Posted:

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Posted by Jen2999

I am getting one or two each day and then skipping a few days.. so annoying!



Same here
kissy27 Posted:

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The last week before the RSVP date!!! Then some dribbled in the week after the date!!!

MissingTheBGene Posted:

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The bulk of mine came the week of the RSVP. I'm still waiting on a few of them, including some from my BP, and my RSVP was the 2nd.

mka06 Posted:

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My reply date was Sunday. I was waiting on 26 reply cards (and about double that many people). One person called and said they had just put it in the mail and it would probably get there Monday (which it did), but they wanted to let me know by the due date. The rest of the people we split up between fh, me, my mom, and fmil to contact. We reached most of them, but unbelievably we still are unsure about 5 people. I don't get it. We've had the date set for a year, sent out save the dates, and people had a month to reply. It's not that hard to put the reply in the mail!!!

beautyq115 Posted:

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My RSVP is June 4th...the thing is I think that some of these people are not even planning on coming anyway....people who never come to anything and don't even respond...but had to be invited....I just want to know that they are not coming...we still have about 20 invites on a 'B' list

mka06 Posted:

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Posted by beautyq115

My RSVP is June 4th...the thing is I think that some of these people are not even planning on coming anyway....people who never come to anything and don't even respond...but had to be invited....I just want to know that they are not coming...we still have about 20 invites on a 'B' list



I am in the same situation.... I have B listers that I would invite if I knew if these freakin' people were coming or not. I agree -- it's most annoying when it's people you know aren't coming, but can't officially count them out until you get the reply card on the off chance they might! Good luck! I didn't feel the slightest bit bad calling people on the reply by date to hassle them!
SuzBride Posted:

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I am a week before you and I have only gotten about a third back too - UGH! And they are coming in slow now- one or two a day. My sister said that 1/3 of the people invited to the shower didn't respond, so she had a call, so I have a feeling FH and I will be making alot of calls
Steph62406 Posted:

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Posted by Jen2999

I am getting one or two each day and then skipping a few days.. so annoying!




Same here!

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