when do i give my rb & junior ushers... (lil long)
when do i give my rb & junior ushers their presents? what's typical?
it is exactly 3 weeks before the wedding and i'm seeing my 2 cousins (my rb and ju's moms today for a mini bridal brunch (me, my mom, my aunt , and my 2 cousins.) i wanted my family and i to do something seperate than my friends just so i could enjoy each group more fully. so family is today.
anyway, i'm probably not going to see any of them before the wedding, so do i bring their gifts with me?
the only problem with that is the difference in the gifts. i was only going to have 1 ring bearer (7yrs. old) and 1 flower girl and i bought them tons of presents (pin ball machine, books, coloring books, stuffed animals, camping backpack, robots, personalized t-shirts, and some other stuff. i probably spent around $300 on each. then i felt bad not including my 3 older cousins (11,11, 13)and added them on later. they will be wearing their own suits with silver ties to match the bp tuxes (so that their mom didn't have to rent 3 tuxes =$$$). i bought them silver plated name tag bracelletes (they probably will be too big on them now.) and they only cost about $20 each.
i would have rather done the presents seperately so that the difference in presents wouldn't be so apparent but i won't have time. do i give the presents to them now, at the wedding, or when i get back from my hm?
thanx for your help, i know this was long.
it is exactly 3 weeks before the wedding and i'm seeing my 2 cousins (my rb and ju's moms today for a mini bridal brunch (me, my mom, my aunt , and my 2 cousins.) i wanted my family and i to do something seperate than my friends just so i could enjoy each group more fully. so family is today.
anyway, i'm probably not going to see any of them before the wedding, so do i bring their gifts with me?
the only problem with that is the difference in the gifts. i was only going to have 1 ring bearer (7yrs. old) and 1 flower girl and i bought them tons of presents (pin ball machine, books, coloring books, stuffed animals, camping backpack, robots, personalized t-shirts, and some other stuff. i probably spent around $300 on each. then i felt bad not including my 3 older cousins (11,11, 13)and added them on later. they will be wearing their own suits with silver ties to match the bp tuxes (so that their mom didn't have to rent 3 tuxes =$$$). i bought them silver plated name tag bracelletes (they probably will be too big on them now.) and they only cost about $20 each.
i would have rather done the presents seperately so that the difference in presents wouldn't be so apparent but i won't have time. do i give the presents to them now, at the wedding, or when i get back from my hm?
thanx for your help, i know this was long.
