Some of these people I feel like I am inviting just because my sister did!!! That's not fair!! I'm going broke!!!!
chander618
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I feel the same way my sis just got married last dec and i feel like i have to invite certain people now.
CLMon7906
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when they do spiteful things to get your FH mad at you....like when i IMd FSIL to ask her to send in her RSVP so we would have the new boyfriend's (that no one has met) name.....she went off to FH and told him i was bugging her and was a real biotch about it....now he's mad.....she did this last summer.............honestly, i would almost pay her not to come---and she's a bridesmaid
ali120206
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You don't have to invite people just because your sister did. Invite who you can/want!
ETA: I know it's easier said than done
Suzannebride
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Just try to make it fair when you cut people out. Like if you are going to cut your cousins, cut out ALL cousins from both sides.
PrincessRose
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We drew the line at 2nd cousins.
October Bliss
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I cut 5 first cousins that I had only met once in my lifetime. I decided the people I see everyday are more important to me. BTW - my sister invited all 5, and none of them attended.
