Post New Topic

When is it too late for shower thank yous?

eden Posted:

When is it too late for shower thank yous?

I had my shower 3 weeks ago and my wedding this past weekend, Is it too late for me to send out shower thank you notes???

Thanks guys!
laural2979 Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

It's never too late to send out thank you notes. If you don't get them out soon, I'm sure that your guests will miss them.

scappy123 Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

Its definitely not too late! I think people will be understanding since your shower was so close to your wedding date. I would try to get them out asap.
I was a nut and wrote all of mine out the night of the shower
nifheim Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

I read a help column and the columnist said its never too late... and i agree. I rather get a thank you late then not get one at all.

October Bliss Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

It's never too late to send a thank-you. In your case I think your shower guests will understand the delay. I think it took me three weeks to get them all written and out.

snydl40 Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

I would send them out ASAP.

ILUVDC Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

I agree...Never too late. the wedding TY's can wait a bit longer.. people understand you probably are waiting for pics.

Mooshyboo Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

never to late! better late than never! (that is my motto)
Kara and Todd Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

MUCH better late than never.

I'd get those shower thank yous out ASAP!! People do notice when you don't send them... but they don't generally get upset when they are a little late...
libby2595 Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

NEVER TOO LATE... SEND ASAP

BEANS Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

My cousin had her shower in February & got married in April. I didn't get a thank you until mid August for the shower & thought it was completely rude. But you only had 3 weeks until your wedding, people will understand that you were busy but I would get them out ASAP!

mrsh2b Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

Never too late! And since its been such a tight time period b/w your shower and your wedding, I'm sure people did not expect to receive a thank you before the wedding. However, now that all the festivities are over, you'd better get on it. Otherwise, it's just very rude.

Bridex100 Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

I'm assuming your shower guests attended your wedding as well.

I would write a collective thank you to your shower guests thanking them for both the shower AND wedding.

My friend who got married LAST year just gave me a thank you card. I had totally forgot about it. I think a year is a bit late.
hmpena Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?

I wrote my shower thank yous on the plane to my HM. I mailed them as soon as I returned. My shower was a month before the wedding and unfortunately, Christmas and New years were the weekends following.

AlmostMrsKelly Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?


Posted by nifheim

I read a help column and the columnist said its never too late... and i agree. I rather get a thank you late then not get one at all.



i absolutely agree
nycgirl79 Posted:

Re: When is it too late for shower thank yous?


Posted by AlmostMrsKelly


Posted by nifheim

I read a help column and the columnist said its never too late... and i agree. I rather get a thank you late then not get one at all.



i absolutely agree



Yup. I agree too. Better late than never.

Reply to this topic

Log in to reply or quote a post.