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When should I mail my invitations?

Dougs Girl Posted:

When should I mail my invitations?

The wedding is Oct. 25....my RSVP date is Sept. 25. What would be the right date to mail them?
Thanks
Dalia Posted:

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I would say mid August.. thats my opinion.
deb08 Posted:

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about 8 weeks before rsvp date-

making it around july 25th

so times you can get away with 6 week which would be around august 7

but it is total up to you and where they all have to go (plus lord knows we never get all the rsvp back and we end up calling at lest 20% ) LOL

have fun!!!!
pa56 Posted:

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My wedding date is Oct 4 and RSVP date is Sept 8.
I am mailing my invites out next week for people who live far away (meaning, they'll need to fly in). For local people, I'll send them out last week of July.

yelley77 Posted:

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I did mine 8 weeks before the RSVP date.

kslmbuggie Posted:

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i sent mine yesterday with an RSVP date of 08/15, so 6 weeks b4 the RSVP date.

Madorie Posted:

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I think 8 weeks is before the RSVP date is good as well. That reminds me that I'm totally late getting mine out now!

My RSVP date is 8/22 for a 10/4 wedding. I figure peopl will be late in responding so I went for the earlier RSVP date.
Dougs Girl Posted:

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Thanks girls...I better start getting them ready
Julybride08 Posted:

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Posted by deb08

about 8 weeks before rsvp date-

making it around july 25th

so times you can get away with 6 week which would be around august 7

but it is total up to you and where they all have to go (plus lord knows we never get all the rsvp back and we end up calling at lest 20% ) LOL

have fun!!!!

I agree I would do it end of July.
sweetdoublenn Posted:

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About mid August, I gave my guests 2 months to rsvp. My wedding is September 12th and our rsvp was August 15th. We sent them out mid June!

Maria31 Posted:

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The basic rule is to send out the invitations 2 months before the wedding, right?? I'm so confused bc that's what I've been going off of. If you send your invites out 8 weeks before the RSVP date... then how long before the wedding are you girls sending out your invites??

I plan to send mine invites out on August 1st for my RSVP date of September 10th. Is that bad??
KK Holiday Posted:

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i would mail them around august 15th

Valerie-Joe Posted:

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Posted by Maria31

The basic rule is to send out the invitations 2 months before the wedding, right?? I'm so confused bc that's what I've been going off of. If you send your invites out 8 weeks before the RSVP date... then how long before the wedding are you girls sending out your invites??

I plan to send mine invites out on August 1st for my RSVP date of September 10th. Is that bad??



I am doing the same as you.
Wedding - Sept. 27
RSVP - Aug. 27
Sending - July 27 (maybe a week or 2 earlier, but I doubt it)

I think for wedding invites (and definitely for my job stuff) if you give them TOO much time to RSVP they won't, or they could lose it, etc.
CJ831 Posted:

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Posted by Valerie-Joe


Posted by Maria31

The basic rule is to send out the invitations 2 months before the wedding, right?? I'm so confused bc that's what I've been going off of. If you send your invites out 8 weeks before the RSVP date... then how long before the wedding are you girls sending out your invites??

I plan to send mine invites out on August 1st for my RSVP date of September 10th. Is that bad??



I am doing the same as you.
Wedding - Sept. 27
RSVP - Aug. 27
Sending - July 27 (maybe a week or 2 earlier, but I doubt it)

I think for wedding invites (and definitely for my job stuff) if you give them TOO much time to RSVP they won't, or they could lose it, etc.



I agree. I have the same wedding date and my rsvp is Aug. 23 and I'll be mailing my invites out maybe a week earlier than you. People tend to forget if they have too much time to respond.
Lisafer1973 Posted:

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They say 6-8 weeks. I did mine on 6/30/08 and my RSVP is 8/1/08...Yeah I slacked a little bit.

DDandSFG Posted:

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I'm sending out my invites this weekend, my rsvp is august 6th (wedding is sept. 13th).

I think it all depends on what you're comfortable with.
MayWeddingGrl Posted:

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give yourself an extra week, because people will not send it back by the RSVP date...

PreshusSmurf Posted:

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8 weeks before the RSVP date is waaaay toooo early!!!!

invitations are supposed to be mailed 8 weeks before the WEDDING DATE

outside of NY most people only mail out 6 weeks before the wedding date.

Mail Out 8/25
RSVP 9/25
Wedding 10/25
AllyDrew1108 Posted:

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Get cracking, Carol! Ha ha!

Smiley7092 Posted:

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I just picked up my invites today and my date is October 25 also! I put the rsvp as October 19 though just in case. So last week of July or early August we should send them out?

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