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When should I mail my invitations?

Original post by Dougs Girl

The wedding is Oct. 25....my RSVP date is Sept. 25. What would be the right date to mail them?
Thanks
FutureMrsPD Posted:

Re: When should I mail my invitations?

im mailing mine out like the 3rd week of July. My RSVP date is August 23rd. I wanted PLENTY of time in between the RSVP date and the wedding to take care of everything (calling everyone who didnt respond, placecards, head counts, seating charts, favors, etc.)

Maria31 Posted:

Re: When should I mail my invitations?


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Posted by Valerie-Joe


Posted by Maria31

The basic rule is to send out the invitations 2 months before the wedding, right?? I'm so confused bc that's what I've been going off of. If you send your invites out 8 weeks before the RSVP date... then how long before the wedding are you girls sending out your invites??

I plan to send mine invites out on August 1st for my RSVP date of September 10th. Is that bad??



I am doing the same as you.
Wedding - Sept. 27
RSVP - Aug. 27
Sending - July 27 (maybe a week or 2 earlier, but I doubt it)

I think for wedding invites (and definitely for my job stuff) if you give them TOO much time to RSVP they won't, or they could lose it, etc.



I agree. I have the same wedding date and my rsvp is Aug. 23 and I'll be mailing my invites out maybe a week earlier than you. People tend to forget if they have too much time to respond.



Agreed. I was second guessing myself but you girls really put me at ease!
kslmbuggie Posted:

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i dont think people will 4get to rsvp. people have been asking me for a couple weeks now when am i sending out invitations. you will always have the late RSVPers and u just have no control over that. people will either rsvp right away or wait until the last minute.

NYCGirl2008 Posted:

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6 weeks before RSVP date.

klovess14 Posted:

Re: When should I mail my invitations?


Posted by CJ831


Posted by Valerie-Joe


Posted by Maria31

The basic rule is to send out the invitations 2 months before the wedding, right?? I'm so confused bc that's what I've been going off of. If you send your invites out 8 weeks before the RSVP date... then how long before the wedding are you girls sending out your invites??

I plan to send mine invites out on August 1st for my RSVP date of September 10th. Is that bad??



I am doing the same as you.
Wedding - Sept. 27
RSVP - Aug. 27
Sending - July 27 (maybe a week or 2 earlier, but I doubt it)

Agreed, my Wedding is 9/28/08 and my rsvp date will be 8/28/08. I will be mailing them Monday 7/28/08 hopefully). I wanted to mail them after my bridal shower.
I think for wedding invites (and definitely for my job stuff) if you give them TOO much time to RSVP they won't, or they could lose it, etc.



I agree. I have the same wedding date and my rsvp is Aug. 23 and I'll be mailing my invites out maybe a week earlier than you. People tend to forget if they have too much time to respond.

chrispar Posted:

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I'd say around the 3rd week in August!

Dougs Girl Posted:

Re: When should I mail my invitations?

Hey Girls,
Thanks for all your replies
Kimbalina Posted:

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My RSVP date is Octobber 1st.
I am mailing them out August 20
gabbie83 Posted:

Re: When should I mail my invitations?

wedding date 4/19
rsvp date 3/15
invites send out end of january

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