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When to have a shower?

Lori-Chris2008 Posted:

When to have a shower?

When is the norm for whom ever to schedule your bridal shower.

three months before wedding? Two months before? Etc?
wifetobe Posted:

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I'd say about three months typically. Give people a chance to recover from the gift giving!!!
Kris0703 Posted:

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I think around two months.

Espo22 Posted:

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its usually 1-3 months before. I am not planning my shower, i do want to be surprised but everything has been booked for mine and invites are going out soon from what i know...other than that i guess mine is in february or march

Mici n KC Posted:

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It all really depends. Some even do it a month before. I would say average is 2-3 months before. For ones that I have thrown, 2 have been a little over 3 months before the wedding simply because of everyone's schedule.

cbcf Posted:

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i am getting married dec 20th i told my mom to have it about 3 months before but i dont want it too early or to late. my mom said august cause we could have it at the house outside. then when she saw the amount of women she second guessed herself

so i think we might have it the weekend of when i was supposed ot be getting married in sept so either sept 27th or 28th - almost exactly 3 months before the wedding
Munchkn16 Posted:

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mine is two and a half months before

DeeluvsVinny Posted:

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2-3 months before.

My cousin is getting married April 18th and her Shower is March 3rd..she knows the date & is annoyed, because she really needs every free weekend in March to finish up little things.

I think I'd feel the same. I told my mom to have mine in May or June.
jeffamanda080808 Posted:

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I want to be suprised for my shower but I asked my sister (MOH) and my mother to do it some time in late April or May because I have so many other occasions to go to. Christening in late May, Christening in early June, Wedding in late June and a Christening in July. April or May are really the only good months for me. So that would be 3-4 months before the weddings.

Lori-Chris2008 Posted:

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yeah our wedding is october so two months before would be like July.. hmm not bad summer out fit. Mine is a surprise so i just want to be able to tell my mom/sisters what days i have things ya know.

Then when will the bach parties be? is that one or two months before? hmmmm
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Lori-Chris2008

yeah our wedding is october so two months before would be like July.. hmm not bad summer out fit. Mine is a surprise so i just want to be able to tell my mom/sisters what days i have things ya know.

Then when will the bach parties be? is that one or two months before? hmmmm



usually 2 weeks to a month before but some do 2 months...i am doing mine about 3 weeks before
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by Lori-Chris2008

yeah our wedding is october so two months before would be like July.. hmm not bad summer out fit. Mine is a surprise so i just want to be able to tell my mom/sisters what days i have things ya know.

Then when will the bach parties be? is that one or two months before? hmmmm



My bach party will probably be in September.
Lori-Chris2008 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by Lori-Chris2008

yeah our wedding is october so two months before would be like July.. hmm not bad summer out fit. Mine is a surprise so i just want to be able to tell my mom/sisters what days i have things ya know.

Then when will the bach parties be? is that one or two months before? hmmmm



usually 2 weeks to a month before but some do 2 months...i am doing mine about 3 weeks before



so much going on right before the wedding my god i cant handle it hehehe. yes i can i love it who am i kidding hehehehe.
Lori-Chris2008 Posted:

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Posted by Mici n KC


Posted by Lori-Chris2008

yeah our wedding is october so two months before would be like July.. hmm not bad summer out fit. Mine is a surprise so i just want to be able to tell my mom/sisters what days i have things ya know.

Then when will the bach parties be? is that one or two months before? hmmmm



My bach party will probably be in September.



Thats sounds about right! I like that idea. and I see you are in October too.
missliss Posted:

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I just found out my shower is next weekend, so that's a little less than 2 months before my wedding. My bach party weekend is Feb 9th, so that's like 4 weeks before the wedding.

anneandchris Posted:

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Usually it is 4-12 weeks before the wedding. Mine will most likely be in July since that is when my sister and FSIL are both in town.

SoVic08 Posted:

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i know my shower date-

im an oct bride but i have to have it in march bc my grandma from greece is here and she's leaving end of march- and wont be back until my wedding....

im excited- we booked everything got a nice theme going too!

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