So, Sat. night, we're all out at a bar and the inevitable topic of 'hows the wedding planning coming along?' comes up. So, i say we're doing ok blah blah - but FH has to start thinking about his tux. He looks at me and says - what? i don't have to do that anytime soon. He says he was going to wait until about 2 weeks before the wedding to go look!!!! So, we get in a fight at the bar in front of everyone - i look like a bridezilla and he's telling me to relax.
Am i crazy? I was thinking about 2-3 months beforehand would be ok. He's telling me that every time he's gone to get a tux its only taken a few days.
What can i tell him to convince him that he should be more serious about this? Geesh.
need your help ladies! TIA
Backinneyork
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I did my on Saturday.... You have time.
otherme
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i know i have time now, but he wants to wait until 2 weeks before the wedding!
simbacat
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We went looking for what he wanted about 2 months before. He then went back about 1 month before to get measured.
JacnRob729
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i know what you mean. the first set of guys just went today to be measured. we have less than 3 weeks to go....
SomethingBlu
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We did ours the month before. Lucky for the guys, unlucky for us, this is one area that they could lollygag in...we went to Tuxedo Park and can't recommend them enough!
Backinneyork
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i know i have time now, but he wants to wait until 2 weeks before the wedding!
Yes, you def need more than 2 weeks!
NPbride
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We're going this week so you have a little time. But def not 2 weeks before the wedding! Sometimes men just don't have a clue!
N.Y.bride
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I think 2 months is probably best
otherme
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Posted by NPbride
We're going this week so you have a little time. But def not 2 weeks before the wedding! Sometimes men just don't have a clue!
seriously, they don't have a clue at all! I guess it upset me more than it should have because I took his comment as a lack of caring about the whole thing. Ug. I'll see if i can subtly work on him a bit more without sounding like a complete nag.
