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When to send invites? What are the rules?

Irish29 Posted:

When to send invites? What are the rules?

If our wedding date is at the end of August...when should our invites go out? What is the rule? Also, when should I order them? Help!! Thanks!!!!!!!
Donna Posted:

Re: When to send invites? What are the rules?

Not sure when you should order, I guess it would depend on how long they take to come in.
Invites should go out about 8 weeks before the wedding with a response date of a month before the wedding.

Remember to give yourself time to put the invites together, get them addressed, stamped, taken to the post office, etc.
kel2004 Posted:

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My wedding is August 14, and the person who I am buying my invitations from said we could wait until April to order them. We will probably mail them about 8 weeks before the wedding.

nylisa Posted:

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My wedding is Sept 18, 2004. I ordered and have already received my invitations. I am mailing them at the end of June because my RSVP date is August 8th.

DrmnBlnd Posted:

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What is your respnse date? I sent mine out 6 weeks before the response date.

sweetadeline Posted:

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I think you're supposed to send invitations about two months before the wedding date. Then you can ask for RSVPs by one month before the date.

jessnyc711 Posted:

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Good question, hey I'm one day after you in August! I was wondering the same thing.

bellepoque Posted:

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I think it also depends on when the place where you are having your reception requires a final head count.

I am getting married on August 7th and I have to have a final count in on July 19th, which is a little bit more than two weeks prior to the wedding. So if I want to give my guests enough time to rsvp and plan, I need to send out my invitations at the end of May/beginning of July.

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