Post New Topic

when to start a family?

LADYLUV69 Posted:

when to start a family?

how soon after the wedding will you start to have children?

kathleenmarie Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

perhaps not at all!!

JimmysBride Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

Same as kathleenmarie here.

I voted 2 years but that would be the bare minimum of time we would wait. More than likely it would be longer, if we decide to have children at all!
sammi102 Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

I think we''re waiting like 3 years or even more. We''re both young... 22 so we want to spend time with eachother and enjoy eachother before we have kids. And we just got a puppy, and that''s definitely enough work for me!

luvsun27 Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

We plan on starting right away (maybe a few months). FH has a daughter from previous marriage...she will be 7 at the time of the wedding. He is 39, I will be 30...my clock is ticking!!! I can''t wait to have a child....

AtticaQT Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

We are going to wait at least 3 years.

monters Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

we are gonna wait 1 year..

christy Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

4-5 years for us minimum

peabody Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

That''s a good question. I am 28 and he is 29, we''ve been together for over 5 years. I am not sure, I think we''ll wait, there is still more stuff we want do before having kids. I am guessing 3 or 4 yrs. That means I will be 33 or 34.


larryswife2be Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

probably 2 years, if we have them at all.
NYCHICK Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

at least 5 years

July2004Bride Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

After we buy a house and get settled in! Or maybe none since I have two stepdaughters (who are like my own) and live with us already
Marcela1654 Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

About 3yrs.
August2004 Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

We are thinking about 3 years.

Diane Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

I think you should ENJOY being married FIRST!!!!
You cant give an estimated time. When you two are ready, you will know.
MrsTC Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

1 - 2 yrs ...when it feels 'right'.

Right now, we want to save $$ and enjoy being newlyweds. Dont get me wrong - if we had plenty of $$ I might try sooner - but I want to be able to give the baby the best. And this apartment aint the best! LOL
kmcwed Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

We''re still undecided about having children at all...

Boop2704 Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

I am so excited about starting a family. I wish I could start tomorrow. But, FH and I have discussed this many times and have decided to wait two or three years to start trying. We want to fully establish our careers and purchase a nice house. We also want to have some money saved so we don''t have to constantly scrape for money. When the time is right, we will know and everything will just come naturally, so until then, I have all my time to devote to my Soon-to Be Hubby!!!
BriBri529 Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

2 OR MORE years- I want to enjoy US time for a while before we start a family.

AUG21-04 Posted:

Re: when to start a family?

FH would like to start right after the wedding, However I would like to wait until we close on a house. So I guess 6mths to a year. I already have a daughter that is 4

Reply to this topic

Log in to reply or quote a post.