I feel like we rushed setting the date and everything. We werent exactly thinking about things financially and we're going into debt paying for this wedding. But im sure in the end it will most definately be worth it.
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nope. I don't feel like I rushed into anything.
ALthough my bridal party has not worked out exactly as I hoped it would I already knew who I'd want before the wedding. It just suc ks that unforseen circumstances messed that up.
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did you feel like you rushed anything and later thought, 'What was I thinking?'
Me: rushing to book a hall, have a e-party, and picking bridal party too quickly.
ITA !!!! I picked my BP Way TOO Early and my RH : ( I was too damn quick to writing checks, now im screwed
I know.. im laughing at myself like what the .... was I thinking... Im starting to take my time and relax... we have 1.5 years to go !!
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i definitely rushed , for no reason
i booked the 1st hall too soon and regretted it- canceled- lost the deposit and now love my new hall
i also blurted out some of my invitees and now regret it, i dont want to invite some of them anymore...
i didnt think through my bridal party and what role they would truly play in my wedding, but i still love my girls, in hindsight i may have not asked one of them to be in it
OMG !! ME TOOOOOOO
I booked with WM and FH hated it.. I still love it ( might do my bridal party or baby shower there one day... keyword: one day.. lol
but Seriously I cant stop laughing thinking about how crazy i was doing things.. and in reality, for what? and bridal party... whew, dont get me started.. ...
I think I'll just have my sisters and call it a day!!
CantWait2Wed
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Let's just say that within a week of being engaged I have 5 girls in my party. Now I have four.
mollygurl24
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I did absolutely nothing for 5 months. Then November came around, and we booked our hall, and did nothing more for 4 months. There after, we started to book our vendors.
evita2781
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we rushed to book the RH and church only cuz we both had busy seasons coming up. but that didn't bother me. my mohs and bm threw a e-party for us which i wish was now instead of January cuz i would've bought a better outfit but it was still a good time
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Yes, I definitely feel I rushed into the hall... not that I don't love it but I don't know if this whole big wedding thing is really what I want. But it's too late now.
i feel like this...not that i don't like my hall...but just that it's turned into this biiggg wedding production...too late now
HoopsnYoyo
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I think I rushed into everything. It was mainly my own fault because I felt that I needed to get everything done as soon as I got engaged. I booked all my vendors by January.
monkeemunk
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hmmm id say i felt rushed for my photog but i loveee thomas paul so it turned out to be a 'good rushd'
JTG4EVER
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I rushed into the bridal party choosing :(
LaBellaVita622
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I always knew everything I wanted so oonce we got engaged we just put the plans into action and started saving! Our bridal party knew they would be in it. Just had to ask of one my Best Friends that I reunited with in September and one of my other really good friends a few months ago
Tomsbride
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I havn't rushed anything. I take too LONG! Can't ever make up my mind.
Im getting Married
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Honestly haven't felt rushed to do anything..I took my time
Still haven't asked my BP (think I need to get on that though) Except my Daughters and FSDS
Otherwise we took our time with everything but it helped that we have a 2 year engagement..no need to rush
SoonToBeMrsONeill
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The only thing that I rushed was choosing the girls for the BP... but in the end it worked itself out and the *mistake* is now gone
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Bee12
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The only thing that I rushed was choosing the girls for the BP... but in the end it worked itself out and the *mistake* is now gone
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I booked my hall within a week becuase i was only interested in 1 date.
I rushed the PHOTOGRAPHER.... I had entered a contest for free photography and video and i had a great feeling about it, but still gave a down payment and i ended up winning the contest..
But am now using the downpayment for the b-pics.
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I booked my hall within a week becuase i was only interested in 1 date.
I rushed the PHOTOGRAPHER.... I had entered a contest for free photography and video and i had a great feeling about it, but still gave a down payment and i ended up winning the contest..
