where do I find...

A big swarovski crystal letter 'M' initial caketopper...

my cake is going to be about 3 feet tall and I would like to keep the topper proportionate to that. I saw a cake topper on etsy.com for $80.00 and it was 5.5' is that too big...small...just right?

I have no idea what I am supposed to be looking for.

http://www.topperswithglitz.com/#start

http://www.justcaketoppers.com/Wedding_Cake_Toppers/Monogram.html

http://www.couturecrystals.com/monogramcaketoppergallery.html

You can try these sites:

HTH