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Where do they fit into the bridal party??

bkal5043 Posted:

Where do they fit into the bridal party??

Hi Ladies,

FH and I have 8 nieces and nephews between us, and given their ages, I'm struggling to figure out where they fit into the bridal party. I was hoping you girls could take a look and let me know your thoughts.

By the wedding, ages will be as follows:
- a 20 year old niece (I figure she'll be a bm)
- an 18 year old niece (another bm)
- 2 13 year old nieces (jr bms?)
- an 11 year old nephew (to old for rb, but too young for gm?)
- 2 10 year old nephews (same as above?)
- a 9 year niece (hoping not too old to be fg?)

Thanks for any comments!!
Soon2BeMrsMango Posted:

Where do they fit into the bridal party??

I feel any one 16+ should be a bridesmaid/groomsmen, (though my cousin is 15 & he will be a groomsmen, not a junior groomsmen).

My cousin will be 12, she is a junior bridesmaid.

My nieces will be 2 & 4, they are flowergirls.

Personally I think 10+ may be a little old to be flower girls/ring bearers but to each their own.

Hope that helps!
Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

Re: Where do they fit into the bridal party??


Posted by bkal5043

Hi Ladies,

FH and I have 8 nieces and nephews between us, and given their ages, I'm struggling to figure out where they fit into the bridal party. I was hoping you girls could take a look and let me know your thoughts.

By the wedding, ages will be as follows:
- a 20 year old niece (I figure she'll be a bm)
- an 18 year old niece (another bm)
- 2 13 year old nieces (jr bms?)
- an 11 year old nephew (to old for rb, but too young for gm?)
- 2 10 year old nephews (same as above?)
- a 9 year niece (hoping not too old to be fg?)

Thanks for any comments!!



What if you used your nephews as Ushers? Are you having a full mass? If so, maybe they could present the gifts.
MrsDtoBe Posted:

Where do they fit into the bridal party??

I have three nephews…my youngest nephew will be 8 at the time of the wedding but I'm still having him as my ring bearer. The other two are older and they're both going to be walking with the Jr. BM.

bkal5043 Posted:

Re: Where do they fit into the bridal party??


Posted by Soon2BeMrsPy


Posted by bkal5043

Hi Ladies,

FH and I have 8 nieces and nephews between us, and given their ages, I'm struggling to figure out where they fit into the bridal party. I was hoping you girls could take a look and let me know your thoughts.

By the wedding, ages will be as follows:
- a 20 year old niece (I figure she'll be a bm)
- an 18 year old niece (another bm)
- 2 13 year old nieces (jr bms?)
- an 11 year old nephew (to old for rb, but too young for gm?)
- 2 10 year old nephews (same as above?)
- a 9 year niece (hoping not too old to be fg?)

Thanks for any comments!!



What if you used your nephews as Ushers? Are you having a full mass? If so, maybe they could present the gifts.



This is going to sound so horrible, but what is an usher? lol I am not having a full mass with gifts. I could absolutely have them walk with the Jr BM's.. that's a good idea...
Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

Re: Where do they fit into the bridal party??


Posted by bkal5043


Posted by Soon2BeMrsPy


Posted by bkal5043

Hi Ladies,

FH and I have 8 nieces and nephews between us, and given their ages, I'm struggling to figure out where they fit into the bridal party. I was hoping you girls could take a look and let me know your thoughts.

By the wedding, ages will be as follows:
- a 20 year old niece (I figure she'll be a bm)
- an 18 year old niece (another bm)
- 2 13 year old nieces (jr bms?)
- an 11 year old nephew (to old for rb, but too young for gm?)
- 2 10 year old nephews (same as above?)
- a 9 year niece (hoping not too old to be fg?)

Thanks for any comments!!



What if you used your nephews as Ushers? Are you having a full mass? If so, maybe they could present the gifts.



This is going to sound so horrible, but what is an usher? lol I am not having a full mass with gifts. I could absolutely have them walk with the Jr BM's.. that's a good idea...



Ushers assist with seating, handing out programs, handing out the rice/flowers/bubbles after the ceremony.
bkal5043 Posted:

Re: Where do they fit into the bridal party??

Duplicate.

bkal5043 Posted:

Re: Where do they fit into the bridal party??


Posted by Soon2BeMrsPy


Posted by bkal5043


Posted by Soon2BeMrsPy


Posted by bkal5043

Hi Ladies,

FH and I have 8 nieces and nephews between us, and given their ages, I'm struggling to figure out where they fit into the bridal party. I was hoping you girls could take a look and let me know your thoughts.

By the wedding, ages will be as follows:
- a 20 year old niece (I figure she'll be a bm)
- an 18 year old niece (another bm)
- 2 13 year old nieces (jr bms?)
- an 11 year old nephew (to old for rb, but too young for gm?)
- 2 10 year old nephews (same as above?)
- a 9 year niece (hoping not too old to be fg?)

Thanks for any comments!!



What if you used your nephews as Ushers? Are you having a full mass? If so, maybe they could present the gifts.



This is going to sound so horrible, but what is an usher? lol I am not having a full mass with gifts. I could absolutely have them walk with the Jr BM's.. that's a good idea...



Ushers assist with seating, handing out programs, handing out the rice/flowers/bubbles after the ceremony.



Oh. Hmm. Maybe they'd want to do that. I need to bite the bullet and figure this out already. Thanks!!
Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

Where do they fit into the bridal party??

You're welcome! Best of luck!

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