Which one is better?

Im making an insert for the shower invites for my cousin.. my mom says one is too pushy.. and 2 is ok.. but cant think of a better way to put it!

PLEASE HELP!!

option 1:
Shhhh!! It’s A
SURPRISE!

Here are just a few gift suggestions…
Wine Glasses Bath Robe
Pajamas Slippers
Lingerie Books
Candles Bakewear

Gift certificates for Manicure/pedicure, massage/spa!

Gift Certificates to Bed Bath and Beyond
To get necessary items for their home!

Anything you think the new bride to be would need for her home. Enjoy Shopping!

See you soon!
Megan



Option #2:
Shhhh!! It’s A
SURPRISE!

Since This is a surprise and Kristine is not registered, Here are just a few gift suggestions…
Wine Glasses Bath Robe
Pajamas Slippers
Lingerie Books
Candles Bake wear


See you Then!!
Megan

hmm- I probably wouldnt give any suggestions

for 1, people may take it litterally and you can get 40 bathrobes

maybe have a cute poem or something saying 'help the bride complete their home' (im not good at wording but you get the idea.

Is there a reason you arent registering?

like this..see i need someone else to do the wording b/c i s*ck


Shhh! It's a surprise for Nancy Winton
Join her bridesmaids as we celebrate her
With a shower to help her set up house with Mark, her husband to be.
Thursday, August 1, 7-10 pm
Bertelsmans Bar, 362 James Avenue
Please be on time as the bride will arrive by 7:30.
RSVP to Joan Rosenberg, 212-456-7890 or Martine Brillier, 718-456-7890 by July 25.
Bridal Registries: Kristine is not registered. Let your imagination run free (or something)

Mark and Lyndon
will soon have a wedding
Down the aisle
Is where they're heading
Before they become
Husband and wife
Let's shower them with things
For their new life
A couple's shower to honor Mark Jones and Lyndon Reading
at the Ladybird Restaurant, 42 Wallaby Lane, Amherst
3 pm, Saturday January 3.
Please call Reese Casey at 414-555-1234 for directions, and to RSVP.

Bridal Showers Bring Wedding Flowers!
Helen Petrillo and John Zheng are getting married.
Before they tie the knot, let's shower them with love
And a few presents as well!
Please join us for a picnic dinner and couple's shower
April 7, 2006, 5:30 pm
Gerald Gardens Pavillion, enter at the corner of Wantaugh and Spring Streets
Please RSVP to Mei Wu at 419-455-4545 by March 29.

thanks christine...

this is the invite.. the insert was just instead of a registury card

Robes, PJ’s and
Slippers for her feet
Candles, lotion
And a bubble bath treat
Silk, satin, cotton
And flannel too
Anything to pamper
Her will do!

Cocktail Party For the Bride
Honoring

I'm going to agree with a few of the other ladies...

if you put suggestions there is a good chance she will get a lot of duplicate gifts.
people tend to take things like that literally.

You don't have to put an insert in at all if she isn't registered. When the guests call to RSVP they will most likely ask if she's registered...the person they are speaking to can say 'oh, she's not registered, but I'm sure she'd love some things for the home/something to pamper herself....'

something like that.

i've been invited to several showers where the bride and groom didn't register and that was how it was handled.

just an idea..