which would you choose for fh?

Original post by evnme

Apr 19, 2006 10:30 PM

fh gave me the option to choose what will happen at his bachelor party in AC.

he will either go to a strip club and get a lap dance
or the strippers will go to their hotel room but no lap dance.

i chose the strip club. strippers in the hotel sounds sketchy to me....

what woud u have chosen?

BellaEyes Posted: Apr 20, 2006 10:33 AM

Re: which would you choose for fh?

I say neither.. I don't like either of those ideas.. just my own opinion..

SunBride07 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 10:57 AM

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I was say 'none of the above'

patticakes Posted: Apr 20, 2006 11:16 AM

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Strip Club, hands down. But I would still hate it.

JennJay Posted: Apr 20, 2006 11:19 AM

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Posted by scappy123

Not that i am comfortable with either, but i would feel better if it was at a strip club rather than at a hotel.....

DITTO!!!!

Dina Posted: Apr 20, 2006 08:50 PM

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Posted by sarahradio5

Ever see the movie 'Very Bad Things'? 'Nuff said. Have him GO to a strip club.

I thought of the SAME EXACT movie when I read this question!!

I had a friend call off a wedding due to the going-ons at her fiancee's bachelor party where he had strippers in a hotel room. At least in a strip club, they're not supposed to touch (so i've heard). It's the lesser of the two evils, i guess!

bride2b24 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 08:51 PM

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i chose the first one.....cuz you know they will still be giving lap dances in the hotel room!

tonimike Posted: Apr 20, 2006 08:58 PM

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My fh has aint going to either,,,,
sorry , strip club, or lap dance,, Nope,,

He can get both from me..

no pea chads in his face ,, ( or mine )

insnejanie Posted: Apr 20, 2006 09:02 PM

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Strip club!!! Hotel room sounds too scary to me. I bet you trust your FH, because I trust my but still things can get crazy especially when the boys are around their friends.

camposal Posted: Apr 20, 2006 09:05 PM

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Hard to say... We made a pact, no lap dances and no hotel rooms. I would try to further negotiate if i were you.

tiffandmatt Posted: Apr 20, 2006 09:09 PM

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Personally...I Would laugh in FH face for even thinking about asking me which one I would prefer!

In my opinion there is NO reason for my FH to be looking, touching, feeling and/or getting turned on in any way by some stranger the night before our wedding.

There are other ways for the guys to have fun, and being in the company of some cheap entertainment is not an option. Tell them to go to a ball game, a bar, go away for the weekend with the guys, there are a million things to do. But not this.

Sorry ladies, I don't mean to offend anyone who feels otherwise. I am just really againts theses forms of bachelor and bachelorette patters.

The excuse is that it's the guys last night of freedom...well boo-hoo for him! Go take a cold shower and wait for your wedding night with your wife! It's a guys last chance to be free, but not to disrepect your realationship.

JMO

evnme Posted: Apr 20, 2006 09:12 PM

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fh could care less about strippers. he'd be perfectly happy just going out for dinner. his friends are taking him to AC for the weekend. they want this more for themselves than for him.
he is the 1st to get married and the only one in a relationship.

he knows he is not allowed to touch the women. and i told him topless is ok, but not bottomless....

Boston&NY2006 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 09:16 PM

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Trust me...

Strippers in the hotel room=REALLY BAD IDEA

An Ex of mine went to a bachelor party where they had strippers come to a house and they did some really raunchy stuff.

At least strip clubs are somewhat regulated...

DUCKS2001 Posted: Apr 20, 2006 09:42 PM

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umm neither but if i had to choose i would chose the place not the bedroom

OctoberPrincess2006 Posted: Apr 21, 2006 02:20 AM

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strip club.

anne1rules Posted: Apr 21, 2006 08:19 AM

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I love this thread!! It makes me feel so much better to see that there are women out there who feel the same as me. A few months back I responded to this same subject with the same feelings many of you have and I was criticized for not trusting my FI and having low self-esteem. It made me feel terrible and really haven't written much since. Luckily for me it never became an issue and we are renting a party bus JAck and Jill style heading out to the winerys and ending up at Claudio's in Greenport.

kissy27 Posted: Apr 21, 2006 08:28 AM

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No doubt a strip club! Strippers in hotel rooms just cause trouble! At least you know that in a stip club your FH will not be able to touch or else he will be having a nice talk with one of the bouncers