which would you choose for fh?

evnme Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:30 PM

which would you choose for fh?

fh gave me the option to choose what will happen at his bachelor party in AC.

he will either go to a strip club and get a lap dance
or the strippers will go to their hotel room but no lap dance.

i chose the strip club. strippers in the hotel sounds sketchy to me....

what woud u have chosen?

LoveBug1124 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:31 PM

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I would make him feel guilty about both, but yes definately the strip club!! Strips with a bed near by no way!!!

scappy123 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:31 PM

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Not that i am comfortable with either, but i would feel better if it was at a strip club rather than at a hotel.....

evnme Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:32 PM

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Posted by LoveBug1124

I would make him feel guilty about both, but yes definately the strip club!! Strips with a bed near by no way!!!

my thoughts exactly!

daisy44lc Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:33 PM

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I would say neither, though the lesser of the two evils is the strip club.

Goldi1021 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:34 PM

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Strip club. If he touches anything/anyone he will more than likely get seriously injured by a large bouncer....

...unless of course he goes to Montreal

johnsae Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:37 PM

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Posted by Goldi1021

Strip club. If he touches anything/anyone he will more than likely get seriously injured by a large bouncer....

...unless of course he goes to Montreal

FH just went to Montreal for his, and I was really surprised when he told me that (at least at the place he was at) there weren't lap dances....only 'table dances' where the girls danced on tables in front of them. He also said they had bottoms on, and I had heard that they get completely naked there. Long story short - I was pleasantly surprised with the lack of sketchiness in Montreal

Goldi1021 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:38 PM

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DH planned and went to a few up there. He touched, he told me everyone touched and I told him never to touch again.

chloeme2 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:43 PM

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With out a doubt a strip club!!!! I do not go for the hotel thing....NO WAY!!

roxyvelas Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:02 PM

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Private bachelor parties are always WAY worse. Trust me, my friend spied on her husbands private one and it was not a good idea.

2Be1 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:04 PM

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NEITHER and I am glad my FH WHOLEHEARTEDLY AGREES

Mdolph6 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:06 PM

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Neither....but if FH ever had the balls to give me that choice it would definitly be in the strip club.

ZuzusPetals Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:08 PM

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Neither. The whole 'tradition' is very strange to me. Its single behavior - I dont understand why men have to do this before they get married. My FI wont have a stipper for his but over the summer his bf got married and they went to a strip club in AC. Turns out, they do NOT get naked in AC - they wear bathing suits. I told him thats the only place he can go - luckily hes not interested.

Anyway, I would choose the strip club and I give you a lot of credit with being comfortable with the idea. Its not about trust for me, its just I dont think its unreasonable for me to be the only naked woman my husband sees and touches.

bayla Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:09 PM

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neither!

ZuzusPetals Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:09 PM

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ooops duplicate post

evnme Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:12 PM

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i trust fh competely. i dont trust his friends.
he's not even into the whole stripper thing. he would have been happy if they just took him out to dinner.
but he is the 1st of his friends to get married and his friends are all single. they want the bachelor party more for themselves than for him.

ef922 Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:25 PM

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Why do men feel as if getting married is an opportunity to go see naked women??? We don't get the same excitement!!!! BUT....if I had to choose...strip club!