I am going to get flamed here but I dont care. Thats why I changed my screen name for now. I dont want to deal with the drama. I totally understand where you are all coming from, its wrong to accept to go to someone's wedding and not show up. But havent we all had those at our weddings (for those of you who are married). We dont post away about it for 980 posts on 50 pages.
Yes I know allure doesnt show up for get togethers and I know she seems to have problems. And I know a lot of you have stood by her for her problems and are fed up but why keep dragging it out? OK maybe she is a man, maybe she isnt getting married, maybe she is a kid, but besides hurting this one bride (who I agree, it is wrong to have done) has she ever HURT any of you? She seems nice to all most of the time and if she hasnt been, everyone has their issues right.
I just think its ridiculous this has gone on for so many pages. And then you ask why she hasnt defended herself, a lot of people have said very nasty things about her. I dont know, I just think that all these posts have gona a little too far. With all the hurt in the world, allure not going to a get together or someones wedding (which as I said is definately wrong but not life threatening) is bothering people so much?
You tell her to leave but in essence, she or he can do whatever they want. We do not own the boards, some of us need to get off of our high horses. Allure, come out and defend yourself whoever you may be. It isnt right what you have done but I think this has gone a tad too far!
mlp924
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We are not horrible! We all know who is horrible. I know that I personally did not scr*w any LIW brides out of $$$ EVER!!!
butterfly20
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mlp said it... we are like a family on here... and you do not disrespect the family...it was not just one thing that caused the hate, it was numerous things, and the last thing put it over the edge.... we are all brides on here, people dont show up to weddings and we dont think highly of them(but somepeople dont know better).... well all of us are suppose to be brides on here, which means we would never do that to 'our own', she did not even have the courtesy to say she wasnt showing up, she posted on here durring the wedding, and after the wedding, and never once said to anyone why she didnt show(she had numerous hours of time to explain her self before we started posting).. there are posts on here where she clearly said that she was going to the wedding, and at the wedding there was an empty seat and favor where she was suppose to be....
now, siding with allure goes against what we brides on here stand for...So why even stay on the boards, if you are going to pick an alias to voice your opinions?
jennbaby
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Ladies
Ythedrama whoever you are (& i think i now) be the lady you are & show your true self!
As Jamie said, this board is full of classy, fun, honest, friendly ladies, we don't want the BS, lying, deceiving, hurtful person on this site.
