Who are we?

Original post by ythedrama?

Jul 06, 2003 03:45 PM

I am going to get flamed here but I dont care. Thats why I changed my screen name for now. I dont want to deal with the drama. I totally understand where you are all coming from, its wrong to accept to go to someone's wedding and not show up. But havent we all had those at our weddings (for those of you who are married). We dont post away about it for 980 posts on 50 pages.

Yes I know allure doesnt show up for get togethers and I know she seems to have problems. And I know a lot of you have stood by her for her problems and are fed up but why keep dragging it out? OK maybe she is a man, maybe she isnt getting married, maybe she is a kid, but besides hurting this one bride (who I agree, it is wrong to have done) has she ever HURT any of you? She seems nice to all most of the time and if she hasnt been, everyone has their issues right.

I just think its ridiculous this has gone on for so many pages. And then you ask why she hasnt defended herself, a lot of people have said very nasty things about her. I dont know, I just think that all these posts have gona a little too far. With all the hurt in the world, allure not going to a get together or someones wedding (which as I said is definately wrong but not life threatening) is bothering people so much?

You tell her to leave but in essence, she or he can do whatever they want. We do not own the boards, some of us need to get off of our high horses. Allure, come out and defend yourself whoever you may be. It isnt right what you have done but I think this has gone a tad too far!

Suzanne Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:02 PM

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HOw about giving it a rest already... what kind of stand are you taking when you will NOT post who you truly are??????????? And to even think that a small percent of the blame should fall on the bride is CRAZY.. The girl was invited somewhere, she failed to show up., no call no FM nothing. that is rude. Apparently she has struck nerve with many members of this site for VARIOUS reasons. I for one am always the one on the side of fairness but this is getting out of hand. the post has been taken down by LIW. leave it at that, and go back to your regular name and regular posting, there is no reason to start MORE drama. JMO

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:05 PM

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Ya know what... everyone is entitled to their opinion, and the right to excersise that opinion.

The post eventually was not about allure, & became a big joke, so what.

For someone who wants to know where all the drama is coming from, you sure are not curbing it or refaining from it either.

I come on this board to talk about getting married and try to help others who are planning & if I feel the need, to chat casually about other stuff.

I think what allure did was really sh!tty, but it is almost consuming these boards & taking away from the girls who have posted about their weddings that they just had....

SO ALLURE IS STILL WINNING BY GETTING ALL THE ATTENTION.

I understand why the brides are angry, I am angry at it too, b/c we can see it happening to ourselves, but really, let's get back to why we come here in the first place. I love you gals & LIW.

JMO - sorry if you don't like it or agree with it.

ETA: as brides we feel overwhelmed & alone in our plight.. this really doesn't help any of us.

Jen_n_Dale Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:05 PM

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Good thinking Suzanne.

ythedrama? Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:05 PM

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Maybe you ladies come off like a cult sometimes and make people leary of posting how they truly feel, ever think about that suzanne? I wasnt blaming the bride I am just saying that the entire situation I find to be weird.

JMO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mlp924 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:11 PM

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Hello ladies! Miss me?

Suzanne Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:13 PM

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I am SOOOOOOO not going to get into any kind of dipute with you, epecially since you are posting under a fake name!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and I for one have never made anyone feel as if they can not post their opinions, I welcome all opinions .. and if you are indeed a regular here you would know that! EVER THINK ABOUT THAT FAKE NAME POSTER????????? ( i would have used your name but i dont know it)

LisaT Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:15 PM

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mlp - thanks for sharing your kids with us. I got booted off last night (DSL went down) and didn't come back till a few hours ago. Thats why I disappeared...

they're adorable

mlp924 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:16 PM

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Thank you Lisa!

ythedrama? Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:16 PM

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I don't want to make anyone mad so I am backing off from this thread and all others. Until Allure gets on here and defends herself, I think we should all just drop it. Don't get so upset about things people, life is too short. I am sorry if I stirred up more commotion. This is the end. On to more important things in life!

jennbaby Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:22 PM

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ythedrama....i think i KNOW who you are, always complaining & defending allure. Alot of us know who you really are so don't think we are fooled!!!!!!!!!

lighten up already & post under your real name if your so righteous in defense to allure.

Gimme a break!

LisaT Posted: Jul 06, 2003 08:28 PM

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I was so sad when DSL went down, it was torture! I was having so much fun last night

mlp - you're a riot!

as for ythedrama, I don't know who you are, but I have a hard time respecting the opinions of people who hide behind fake names. If you believe in what you're saying, you should be willing to admit it openly. And I would respect you even more for speaking out against the masses.

I've cringed at some of the stuff that goes on on here, but I have no sympathy for Allure. She pi$$ed off too many of us. We don't have to make nice all the time.

swags1016 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 09:01 PM

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Ythedrama-- If you are going to tell us that we are wrong for what we are saying or doing-- fine the be woman enough to say it as yourself. I am here on my normal screen name saying that there is a long list of people who RICHARD ALLUE ALEXANDRIA hurt!! In the past when she pulled her crap I stayed out of the lashing at her-- but this was the extreme. She had the nerve to even comment on the girls thread about the wedding when she just cost her a couple of hundred dollars!!Hopefully Karen is off enjoying her honeymoon. A cult we are not but protective of each other I think we should be!!!

Now as to your other comments-- If you are a bride or a Newlywed as I think you are, who are you to call this bride weird or strange. You are critcizing someone who is not even here. The only difference is I am not FAKE about it. I am saying it under my real name!!! By you saying that about her that makes you just as bad as us if not WORSE BECAUSE YOU ARE USING A FAKE NAME!

Now I am getting married in a couple of days. If I choose to invite some girls from this website, that makes me strange-- I resent that!!! I have made many friends on here!! I love all the girls that I have met in person. I walk with some of the girls, I have gone to BBQ's at their house and I have gone to Jillian's and other places with them. I resent you saying that it is strange! We have all been invited to Jillian's and Chilli's is that strange? Or is it strange that you don't go and back out all the time????

If you are going to say something about us then say it to our faces under your real name. Most of us already suspect who you are already!!!

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 09:35 PM

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swags... well said...

mlp924 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 09:41 PM

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I can't believe the other thread is gone!

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 09:43 PM

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i know... and all those posts came off our total # of posts

mlp924 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 09:46 PM

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Did they really? We worked hard on that thread! It's just not right!

minniebride14 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 09:50 PM

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Um, just a question, but if you really know who 'Ythedrama' is, why not just FM her or address her by her real name to talk with her about this? I'm not even certain what happened, but several of you keep saying 'we know/suspect who you are' to her. So, just address her directly then. JMO...

mlp924 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 09:53 PM

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Ok If Ythedrama will not OUT herself, then someone else please do the honor............

swags1016 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 09:53 PM

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Because Donna if I am wrong I don't want all the girls on here bashing the wrong girl. I am actually being nice!!

Also I am answering her 6 posts telling us how horrible we are.