Who are we?

ythedrama? Posted: Jul 06, 2003 03:45 PM

Who are we?

I am going to get flamed here but I dont care. Thats why I changed my screen name for now. I dont want to deal with the drama. I totally understand where you are all coming from, its wrong to accept to go to someone's wedding and not show up. But havent we all had those at our weddings (for those of you who are married). We dont post away about it for 980 posts on 50 pages.

Yes I know allure doesnt show up for get togethers and I know she seems to have problems. And I know a lot of you have stood by her for her problems and are fed up but why keep dragging it out? OK maybe she is a man, maybe she isnt getting married, maybe she is a kid, but besides hurting this one bride (who I agree, it is wrong to have done) has she ever HURT any of you? She seems nice to all most of the time and if she hasnt been, everyone has their issues right.

I just think its ridiculous this has gone on for so many pages. And then you ask why she hasnt defended herself, a lot of people have said very nasty things about her. I dont know, I just think that all these posts have gona a little too far. With all the hurt in the world, allure not going to a get together or someones wedding (which as I said is definately wrong but not life threatening) is bothering people so much?

You tell her to leave but in essence, she or he can do whatever they want. We do not own the boards, some of us need to get off of our high horses. Allure, come out and defend yourself whoever you may be. It isnt right what you have done but I think this has gone a tad too far!

prncssrachel Posted: Jul 06, 2003 03:53 PM

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I am not going to jump on your back for your opinion. I agree, it's not the end of the world, and in perspective, julyk did say that like ten people she actually DID KNOW did not show up, so in perspective, one person she does not know is not the end of the world. But, on the other hand, I don't know if you've read the entire thread, which would take a while, but a lot of it is in good fun, and I don't even think much of it has even been about this girl for a while. I don't know, just my two cents. Sorry you felt like you had to change your name just to say what was on your mind. You're more than entitled. to whoever you are.

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 03:53 PM

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thanks for your comments allure...
part of the post gave yourself away

ythedrama? Posted: Jul 06, 2003 03:55 PM

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See what I mean, this is not allure.
Not for nothing but when have you ever known allure to write full length things like this one. This is someone who wants to speak her mind but doesnt want to get flamed for doing so. Believe what you want.

shamma Posted: Jul 06, 2003 05:13 PM

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Why would you defend her behind a new name

HeatherandNick Posted: Jul 06, 2003 05:37 PM

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Suzanne Posted: Jul 06, 2003 05:57 PM

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ythedrama? Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:09 PM

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I am not a fake neither am I allure. I am someone who knows that they will get flamed for their opinion so therefore would rather post under another screen name. All these questions towards me but I dont see anyone answering the questions that I addressed. Believe what you may though, because that is going to be what happens anyway.

Suzanne Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:26 PM

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I think that you would be taken more seriously and with more credibility if you were not posting under a fake name.. but that is JMO...

ythedrama? Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:28 PM

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I think that I would be blown out of the water and that people would be surprised at my opinions. Thats just how I feel. Im not here to fight with anyone or to hurt anyone. Just speaking my opinion.

pschica Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:28 PM

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i just figured out what jmo means - just my opinion, right??

swags1016 Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:34 PM

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I am not one that normally participates in the drama on the boards but I have had with Richard Allure Alexandria and her BS! If you are not getting married anymore- fine who cares be on the boards but this BULL about NO SHOWING on a bride that I can not handle. To be on these boards when you are suppose to be there--- the is the ulitmate in LOW CLASS behavior!!! So 1000 posts or whatever this is all of us who have had it with her drama lettting it out!!!

Besides the fact that the 1000 posts that you mentioned turned into a bonding experience that we are now, as I type all sitting here toasting!! So you ask why does it bother me?

It bothers me that someone comes on here LIES and deceives people I care about!!!!

Suzanne Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:38 PM

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well said Jamie....

Suzanne Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:39 PM

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pschica
yes JMO meants just my opinion..

ythedrama? Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:39 PM

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totally understood.

pschica Posted: Jul 06, 2003 06:55 PM

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go jamie!

eternityawaits Posted: Jul 06, 2003 07:08 PM

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ummmm... what happened? i must have missed something

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 06, 2003 07:33 PM

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I dunno eternity, but i saw the other post... you can sort of catch up (minus the 'deleted' posts) if you have about an hour to read it all....

ythedrama? Posted: Jul 06, 2003 07:56 PM

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Not for nothing but am I the only one who doesnt understand why someone would invite a virtual stranger to her wedding anyway? Out of niceness, ok fine but I find it to be a little odd in the first place. Yes we are a community here but did she truly know allure. Supposedly everyone on here knows 'how she is' so why did you take that chance in the first place? I have heard of people not showing up at others weddings when its family for gods sake let alone a person that doesnt even know another one. Yes I think its allures fault for accepting or saying she wanted to go but I also think that inviting people you dont know to your wedding is taking a big chance, you cant be too upset by it. I may stand alone in the way I feel, but I am happy that I at least do stand.