It may just be my personality type but I've always loved doing things on my own. And I def like to take charge. I'm having a small BP and one of the girls I just recently asked. My MOH is pregnant, don't drive and has been having alot of drama with her BF. She's always told me though any help I need, she's there. Thing is I haven't really needed any. She came with me to pick out the dress but FH and I have done everything together. Flowers I went with my mom. FH has actually been totallly involved, called places, came to every place with me and now that eveything has been booked, I don't really think there's much more to do. I know I've read complaints on the board about having BPs where no one helped, but what exactly is there that needs to be done by the BP. I just need mine to be supportive and wear the dress I chose lol.
MrsC2010
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i do mostly everything with the help of fh...i sometimes invite my mom or fmil to come to different things with us but more so they feel involved.
Jna2010
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mostly me and my doc/planner, i consult fh for vendors and stuff but the details are in my hands, ill ask my mom also sometimes but she usually looks at me like i have 3 heads lol
StaceyWill
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FH & I are doing all planning. I'll ask my sis (MOH) or mom for their opinion every now and then, but that's it
MarjorieFrank
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I am doing all of the planning with FH. No one else really cares too much.
AngnShaun
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Me... I've spoken to my mom and my sisters about a few things... but now that I think of it... i've pretty much planned everything... i have a pretty clear picture of what I want...
FH doesnt care... although sometimes hes asks if i want help and stuff like that, but the minute I start talking to him, his eyes glaze over and I get mad at him and myself for even thinking he was serious!
marinai7
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FH - we've gone to all the vendors and everything together so far. Once I start looking for a dress, I will be with 2 MOH's and probably my BM's.
Lsorrent
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Me, me, and me
FH has come to appointments with me, but I made the appointments.
One of my BM's came to look at invites with me.
Flowers I'm doing on my own, FH wants nothing to do with them.
My girls are all happy to help, but I really haven't asked for any yet. I prefer to just do things my own way.
christine2010
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the main planners are me & my sister. my mom also helps out a lot. i only ask FH for question where he has to choose what he likes better.
Bride825
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i do most of the work and then I bring either FH, mom, MOH or FSIL with me for some appointments
JAAMS
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Hmmm I do most of everything. FH DOES help when I ask him to. My MOH is going to be helping with my STDs, and another of my BMs is very supportive and I know would be here if I needed her.
DaniandKen2010
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Me only, FH a little bit, I've been asking for help but everyone keeps telling me that I have time.
LanaB
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I research and do the planning myself, my fh comes with me to meet with most of the vendors
