Who are your RSVPs going to?

Original post by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Jan 13, 2009 02:24 PM

I thought I was handling it since I've been handling everything, but mom insistedddddd that they should go to her and my dad... I mean, I gave in bc I understand the reasoning, but a bit disappointed bc I want to stalk ther mailman and now I cant... Maybe I'll just move back home for a couple of weeks

VeggieBride Posted: Jan 13, 2009 03:03 PM

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me! my parents live in FL now so even though theyre paying for it it makes more sense to go to me

FutureMrsG Posted: Jan 13, 2009 03:03 PM

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My RSVPs are going to come to ME! BUT I am sure my mom will be calling daily for the update.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Jan 13, 2009 03:06 PM

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im so jealous of all you girls that will get to stalk the mailman... i'll get to stalk dad instead since he gets home first, around 4:30ishhhh LOL

coldasice217 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 03:08 PM

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I live at home, so that's where they're coming. Even if I didn't live home, I'd want full control of it, and I know my mother wouldn't want them coming to her by herself either.

Jennmolloy Posted: Jan 13, 2009 03:10 PM

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They will be coming to FH and I. That was one of the things that FH requestd when we started wedding plans. He wants to stalk the mailman

AFutureBride Posted: Jan 13, 2009 03:29 PM

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Posted by coldasice217

I live at home, so that's where they're coming. Even if I didn't live home, I'd want full control of it, and I know my mother wouldn't want them coming to her by herself either.

Same here!

tinadansr Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:02 PM

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mine are going to my parents cuase sometimes our mail gets messed up here??

DinaAndRob Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:16 PM

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Posted by squeekietoy

Ours went to us. I didn't want anyone but ME opening those bad boys. I'm selfish.

Me too!!!! FH said I can open all of them!!! So far I have gotten 5 back....and they were all yes's!!!

Jsquared279 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:22 PM

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They went to my Mom cuz that is what she wanted and as the person paying for our big day I thought we should oblige. However, this was the biggest PITA in our planning. She would call me everyday then I would have to write it down and update our spreadsheet and all I heard was 'WHO IS THAT?!?!'

SOOOO OBNOXIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!

pooh57362 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:23 PM

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They are going to our house, I'm super anal when it comes to organizing stuff. I can't even think of letting someone else do it.

FutureMrsM Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:25 PM

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Mine are coming to me, I'm an absolute control freak and the idea of someone else handling my RSVP's and head count scares the life out of me, lol!

megsher Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:26 PM

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Me!Me!ME!
My parents are hosting this wedding, but they live 5 hours away and honestly don't want the responsibility. My mom is like spreadsheet what? and my dad has never opened mail in his life.

kgicrls Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:40 PM

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Mine are going to me and FH.

MrsGRod09 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:45 PM

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Me, Myself and I...i've put all the work into the wedding i deserve to open them up lol

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 04:49 PM

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Our parents are 'paying' for the wedding in the form of a gift which we will receive at the wedding so I figure since I'm paying upfront I'm getting the rsvps. This wont bother my parents at all though - they're just not like that.

dazies1011 Posted: Jan 13, 2009 05:20 PM

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They are coming to me

Ivyqueenz Posted: Jan 13, 2009 05:21 PM

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They are coming to me. My mom is involved but I take care of everything. I'm sure she will come over or call to find out who has responded though.

Camroy Posted: Jan 13, 2009 05:23 PM

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Ours are coming to us. Though now I'm second guessing it. The invite says parents request honor of ur presence at marriage of daughter....does it look stupid that the rsvps are going to the future mr & mrs?