Who do you want invited to your bacholerette party?

Who do you want invited to your bacholerette party?

This was a discussions between me and FH and my bridesmaid and is Best man. FH is inviting groomsmen and his uncles to his and I absolutely love his aunt, we go drinking and hang out, but for a b-party i feel like others would get offfended. My bestfriend also wants to invite my mom, which i dont have a problem with, it's just that then his mom should be there then, and i dont want that. Should I just limit it to bridal party and some close friends?

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basically my whole bp is under age! my plan is to round up as many girlfriends as i can for the bachelorette party. i am still conflicted over whether i want any representatives from fh's family there, ie his brother's wife, his cousins ,etc. i mean, i don't hang out with them on a regular basis, so why should the b-party be any different? on the other hand, i wouldn't want to offend anyone. i suppose we'll think about it more as the time nears...

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Not having one. Friends live in different locations.

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Basically any lady who is invited to the wedding an can hang until 4 am is invited to come. I see what you mean about Fh's mom. My mom likes going out, but it is not FMIL's scene. If you don't want to offend, I would limit it to close friends and BP. Do something special with your mom on another night.

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I am inviting anyone that wants to come out and have a good time with me.

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i agree with angelbear...

i would do what you're most comfortable with...as cool as your mom may be, bps can get a little crazy!!

leave the mamas at home and spare the dramas

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I gave my MOH's a list that included all of my girlfriends invited to the wedding-- and also two good guy friends of mine-- we are just doing a night of partying- no strippers.

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FI and I are taking close friends and we are all going for a weekend, maybe to London.

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That's what I would do - I'm only inviting my best friends and bridal party. It start to get really complicated ometimes when you start to invite everyone. I have to much stress already.

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It is this weird surreal experience. Old ladies with walkers gambling, amusements parks, weird over the top shows -- just not my cup of tea. Plus it is HOT!!! Dry heat my tushy.

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it is so expensive to go away, but i would love to go to florida with the ladies!!! as for people to go... i say the more the merrier!!!! i went on a bach party for my friend and she brought her mom... it wasn't so bad!!! i don't think you have to invite his mom to your party, unless you wanted to and you can hang out and drink and embarass yourself in front of her. i don't even want to do that in front of my mom, but it would be fun to see her drink!!!!!!!! that is if she would.!!!

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I think we are going to also keep it to bridal party and some other close friends, just to keep it simple. Although, we are also going away so i dont even know if the girls that arent in the bridal party would be able to come. I dont want them to feel like its a financial burden, but i also dont want them to feel like they HAVE to go. I guess I'll just leave all the details to the BM's!!!

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I am inviting my whole Bridal party, some other friends that weren't in the bridal party (ie. friends from school), my sister in laws, my sisters' friends, my mom and her friend.

I think my BP and I might separately go away for a weekend, not necessarily another b party for me but just a girls weekend the summer before my wedding. And then there will be that one sloppy night with all the girls.

And no way in a million years would I feel I had to invite my FMIL. That would even be a question in my head, no matter who I invite. She hates drinking, hates loud noises, and all that other stuff.