Wanted to know from you girls who does most of the wedding planning you or your fiance???
In my situation its Me, Me and Me lol
He just goes with me to places..... Do you girls think it's a girls job to plan and do all the research or it should be both...... I mean I don't mind I loveeee doing that stuff, but just wanted to hear your point of view....
I think the bride does most and just tell the groom what time to show up lol...
grrulz
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at the beginning is just me me and me but after we booked the florist (he did the calls the negotiations) i was so proud of him now he is more into the planning and he gives me ideas and input
jayepyt
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me
Kiki1103
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hands down me
stinenandy2010
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me, my mom and my doc.....fh has really started taking an interest in things lately, i think its bc we are getting close.
MC127
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FH doesn't go to any appts. I looked for all of the RH's with MOH and mom. I likes Westbury Manor and booked with them on the spot. However, I did call FH prior to booking to see what he thought.
He really has no interest in going to all the vendors. Sometimes, I get upset when I see other Grooms to be there and mine isn't. On the flip side, I love having total control.
LanaB
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LOL its so funny that all of us girls do most of the planning... I gues most of the guys are the same.... But then again we get to do what we want and to our taste heheh
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It's just me planning... I love it! He doesn't even come with me for the venues... since we live 6 hours away lol.. my MOH goes to all of the venues then when I find a place, I take FH to see it...
he is really busy with work and can't take time off.. i bet you didn't know being a football and lacrosse coach was that much work.. lol
LaurenJosh
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Def me!
Jna2010
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i do all the hardwork, fh shows up with me to MOST appts (ahem, yes not all lol lazy!!!)
LanaB
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i do all the hardwork, fh shows up with me to MOST appts (ahem, yes not all lol lazy!!!)
Same here, I do all the planning and researching, he just goes with me to all diff vendors (at least that) lol
futureMrsJSL
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I do the research, narrow it down, and then he come with me to appointments and we make a joint decision from those choices.
T E R I
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Me, i bring my mom and sister with me to all appointments. FH doesn't come to any appointments with me, he trusts me to do it all
JillandJoe
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I tell fh where to be and he is there, but he does geniunely care about the detials...
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I think the bride does most and just tell the groom what time to show up lol...
Stacey I couldn't have agreed more LOL
LanaB
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Posted by mikendeanna
Posted by StaceYums81
I think the bride does most and just tell the groom what time to show up lol...
Stacey I couldn't have agreed more LOL
LoL Me too!!!!
Sandradv121
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Ummm, well I make all the appointments and research, he does the money and other stuff. Its pretty equal except when he has a groomzilla moment
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Posted by futureMrsJSL
I do the research, narrow it down, and then he come with me to appointments and we make a joint decision from those choices.
Same here. I make all the phone calls, appointments, etc. He's been to all of the appointments with me so far. Generally it's a joint decision, but I know he really doesn't mind and is willing to let me get whatever I want.
He actually wants NOTHING to do with flowers, which I'm fine with.
He'll help plan the honeymoon, as he's really good at planning vacations.
cateydee
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i make him do stuff. if hes going to insist that its OUR wedding then WE better do the work
