Who else is crying right now?

I am SO happy for all the new preggos, but I am SO sad because it's not me (and the other girls struggling to TTC).

I really want to cry right now!

Tons and tons of baby dust to everyone

i TOTALLY understand how you feel...but look on the bright side - you DID get pg....at least you know you can - i have been trying since Sept with no luck...

when it is meant to be it will be - don't worry - it will happen soon

Shana,


I have a really hard time it too. I know that this might sound mean, but I have SUCH a hard time with hearing new announcements from women who don't post on TTC (ever!)
ANyway, I am babbeling, I just wanted you to know I love ya and I know what you are feeling.

i know, this really, really a tough thing to go through - and i know that i don't even have a right to complain because many women on this board have been trying much longer than me.

i had bloodwork done on friday to see if i was pg after the m/c and of course, i'm not. i just thought maybe because af has been gone a long time and i was sort of symptomatic - this all just stinks!!

hopefully in the next few months or so, we will all find ourselves pg!!!

I hope all of your dreams come true this year ladies

I feel your pain.

Sending lots of hugs

I got AF today and so another month for me to try also. I have been trying since November. Our time will come.
I never see my husband. He is a resident at StonyBrook Hospital. We only baby danced 3 times this month. How pathetic is that. He is always at work. I never see him. I just hope one day we will be able to baby dance on the right day. Just know we are here for you and we understand. Hope these hugs help

I also feel your pain! Don't worry everything will fall in place.

I know how you feel. One day it will be YOU

Hi Shana!
I think about you all the time sweetie!!!!

Everything is going to work out for you and your DH. I just know it!!!!! Please stay strong and remember that good things come to those who wait. Easier said than done I am sure but believe it sweetie!!!!

Baby Dust to you and all that are TTC. Nothing but the best wishes for you all!!!!

Shana, how you feeling today?
I have my setbacks, too, sometimes. I even find myself staring at pregnant woman sometimes, reminiscing what I felt, and thinking of the 'what ifs'... really *****, but we must remain strong. All of us... I'm confident that all of our time will come.

I was crying right there with you Shana. It's so hard.

I think, and I know some of you agree with me, that when people come on the TTC board and announce their pregnancy it's so hard...but what has really been upsetting me is that the last few people haven't even been on the TTC board at all. I was like 'Who is this person??'

I know one of you suggested, and I agree, these announcements should be made on the Parenting board....since they have not been TTC and having hard times like we have.

No bashing please, I know they are so excited and want to announce it and its GREAT news for them...but it is like a knife in the heart for the rest of us who are here day after day, month after month.

I hope you all know that I have no ill will toward anyone - really, I don't. But it has made it very hard lately for me and for some of the other regulars on this board.

Just my thoughts.... to you all

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Posted by kelleherkm

I was crying right there with you Shana. It's so hard.

I think, and I know some of you agree with me, that when people come on the TTC board and announce their pregnancy it's so hard...but what has really been upsetting me is that the last few people haven't even been on the TTC board at all. I was like 'Who is this person??'

I know one of you suggested, and I agree, these announcements should be made on the Parenting board....since they have not been TTC and having hard times like we have.

No bashing please, I know they are so excited and want to announce it and its GREAT news for them...but it is like a knife in the heart for the rest of us who are here day after day, month after month.

I hope you all know that I have no ill will toward anyone - really, I don't. But it has made it very hard lately for me and for some of the other regulars on this board.

Just my thoughts.... to you all

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I couldn't agree more with you. This past month has been the 1st offical month that we are trying since last fall. I remember the 1st 2 months that I didn't get pregnant how very upset I was and would cry when someone on TV found out they were pregnant.

I am so happy for all the mothers and fathers to be but I completely understand the TTCers and how that feels.

Hugs to us all

I don't post on this board but I just wanted to send you girls some and some baby dust.

I'm not TTC (not even getting married anytime soon!) but my friends are having this problem and I'm afraid that someday if I ever get married I won't be able to conceive...

I am so sorry!!! I wish much baby dust to all of you... and you are right, if you aren't a regular TTCer, you should post on parenting...

Good luck to all of you!!

Hugs and baby dust to you all!!!!!!

I don't mean to intrude in any way at all- DH and I are not TTC until winter or maybe spring- but I am so excited to TTC and so scared of having trouble that I must admit I've been a lurker on this board to learn all about charting.....I just want to say that I think it is so great how you have been supporting each other and how strong all of you are! I'm so sorry so many of you are feeling sad right now- I truly truly hope that things turn around- i wish you lots and lots of baby dust!!