jealous that you are getting married and making you feel like you are doing something wrong
shelby34
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luckily, most of my friends are married or engaged themselves. I only have one single friend and she is the greatest...she is just not the jealous type.
lisaslove
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most of mine are married or getting married. sorry you feel that way
kam0813
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i know how you feel...its so bad that i don't talk to two of my friends anymore and they were supposed to be bridesmaids but i decided to drop them and just not invite them to the wedding...i'm not going to waste my time or breath trying to make you stay friends with me...i've got plenty of friends who love me and are excited about my big day...s c r e w anyone else
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i know how you feel...its so bad that i don't talk to two of my friends anymore and they were supposed to be bridesmaids but i decided to drop them and just not invite them to the wedding...i'm not going to waste my time or breath trying to make you stay friends with me...i've got plenty of friends who love me and are excited about my big day...s c r e w anyone else
It's sad when something like your wedding can cause friendship and relationships to break. But then again if that person chooses to show their true colors at that time, maybe it's for the best. The reality is that person(s) was never your friend to begin with. Your wedding was just the tool needed to remove negativity from your life.
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Posted by kam0813
i know how you feel...its so bad that i don't talk to two of my friends anymore and they were supposed to be bridesmaids but i decided to drop them and just not invite them to the wedding...i'm not going to waste my time or breath trying to make you stay friends with me...i've got plenty of friends who love me and are excited about my big day...s c r e w anyone else
It's sad when something like your wedding can cause friendship and relationships to break. But then again if that person chooses to show their true colors at that time, maybe it's for the best. The reality is that person(s) was never your friend to begin with. Your wedding was just the tool needed to remove negativity from your life.
i'm glad i found out now instead of later..at least i didn't spend any money on them yet...i was bending over backwards to have these girls in my wedding party but they kept making excuses not only for the wedding but just to hang out as well...they even gave me lame excuses when i asked them to come to dinner with me for my birthday...that was the last straw for me...so i dropped them from the BP and the invite list and haven't told them but they'll figure it out when they don't get an invite...i'm not going to waste my breath with them anymore...its not worth the stress...i'm glad weddings really help weed out who your friends are and who aren't
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I have NONE of that with my friends. Their all soooooooooo happy. I guess thats why there my true friends. NO jealousy here.
Bella Blu
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Most of my friends are happy for me and ask questions when I get in touch with them. My good friend from HS in anxiously waiting to jump right in and help me with any DIY projects, so I am very fortunate about that.
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I know how you feel 100% two of my Bm's ( My Best Friends) wouldn't come to a bridal show case because they said they didn't want to Jinx themselves ( How Stupid is That) I was like so basically they aren't going to do any wedding related things with me .. I am sooooo Hurt!!!!
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yeah i experience that a lot... but i've been told that it's pretty common and happens a lot to people. fsil before she met the guy she is now happily dating used to get really jealous (in a sad way b/c she was single) of me and FH and i felt bad for her. some of my friends and one of my co-workers are a little bitter and i can tell b/c of their attitudes... my co-worker was just recently married so i think she is sad b/c her day has come and gone and mine is still coming. by far the worst is my cousin who still hasn't even asked about me and FH, the wedding, the planning, anything.... she didn't even ever say congrats or ask to see my ring. it's like i don't exist and nothing about me or FH or our wedding exists-- so she is the worst out of everyone. she is single and was engaged but broke it off a long time ago which i think she now realizes was a big mistake-- again, none of this is my fault but oh well. i am not asking her to be in my BP just b/c of how negative she is all the time
There are a lot of women on the boards who are going through the same problem. I am no longer speaking to my MOH. We were friends for 30 years! She dosen't even know i'm pregnant. It's sad bc you would think something like this would bring you closer. It's times like these when you find out who your real friends are.
