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Who feels like their friends are.......

MrsMichel07 Posted:

Who feels like their friends are.......

jealous that you are getting married and making you feel like you are doing something wrong
Athee07 Posted:

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aww sweetie im so sorry you are going through this!!! No matter what you have all of us who are sooooo HAPPY for you
MrsMichel07 Posted:

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Posted by Athee07

aww sweetie im so sorry you are going through this!!! No matter what you have all of us who are sooooo HAPPY for you



Thank you sweetie.....

This is why I am getting rid of one of my MOHs

One less bo-k I have to buy and I am FINE with it!!!!
Nina Posted:

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Sorry Cherese

None of mine are..most of them are getting married before me
Athee07 Posted:

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thats how I looked at it when I kicked the 3 girls... although I havent really formally told them... because we dont talk!!! one of them only e-mails me when she needs info on professors so whateverrrr

there loss our gain!!
MrsMichel07 Posted:

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Posted by Athee07

thats how I looked at it when I kicked the 3 girls... although I havent really formally told them... because we dont talk!!! one of them only e-mails me when she needs info on professors so whateverrrr

there loss our gain!!



Fo' sho'
weddingbunny Posted:

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I have two sort of sections of friends... my maid of honor and that group are ecstatic for me and supportive and everything... then I have another group of friends, a few old friends from high school, who are just... wierd about it. Not jealous so much as just... I don't know. All they keep saying is things like 'I can't believe you're getting married... it makes me feel so old.'

Not exactly the support and love I'd like from my friends

Of course these same friends aren't exactly the settle-down types... And that's all I'll say about that. We're not so close as we used to be.

I'm sorry you have to deal with nasty friends though! I really wish some people could just suck it up and learn to be happy for others.
brittny817 Posted:

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Posted by MrsMichel07

jealous that you are getting married and making you feel like you are doing something wrong



Sweetie I went through the same kind of thing with my MOH who is also my best friend. She was always negative and being difficult about everything from dresses to having lunch. I didn't say anything but I pulled away from her and I think she realized she was being a b-tch. She has come around a bit. She has been engaged to her fiance for 2 years and they still haven't set a date so yes jealousy can come to play with some friends. Cheer up and don't let her ruin this special time for you!
MrsMichel07 Posted:

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Posted by MrsMichel07

jealous that you are getting married and making you feel like you are doing something wrong



Sweetie I went through the same kind of thing with my MOH who is also my best friend. She was always negative and being difficult about everything from dresses to having lunch. I didn't say anything but I pulled away from her and I think she realized she was being a b-tch. She has come around a bit. She has been engaged to her fiance for 2 years and they still haven't set a date so yes jealousy can come to play with some friends. Cheer up and don't let her ruin this special time for you!



Ahaha.... she is my BF tooooo!!!
I am not really concern with it anymore- we had a little falling out a couple of years ago and stop speaking for like a year and now we had another falling out with she is totally to blame for....I will keep it moving and will not let her get me down- I am so at peace with myself.... no that I have tried to reach out to her two times- includeing today with no response...... now I can say that I honestly tried.

I WILL Shine on MAY , 12, 2007 with all of my REAL FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
brittny817 Posted:

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Posted by MrsMichel07


Posted by brittny817


Posted by MrsMichel07

jealous that you are getting married and making you feel like you are doing something wrong



Sweetie I went through the same kind of thing with my MOH who is also my best friend. She was always negative and being difficult about everything from dresses to having lunch. I didn't say anything but I pulled away from her and I think she realized she was being a b-tch. She has come around a bit. She has been engaged to her fiance for 2 years and they still haven't set a date so yes jealousy can come to play with some friends. Cheer up and don't let her ruin this special time for you!



Ahaha.... she is my BF tooooo!!!
I am not really concern with it anymore- we had a little falling out a couple of years ago and stop speaking for like a year and now we had another falling out with she is totally to blame for....I will keep it moving and will not let her get me down- I am so at peace with myself.... no that I have tried to reach out to her two times- includeing today with no response...... now I can say that I honestly tried.

I WILL Shine on MAY , 12, 2007 with all of my REAL FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!



You'll shine like a diamond baby!!!
Vicky423 Posted:

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I am kind of going through the same thing with my MOH/BF. Its so annoying b/c they should be one of the people cheering you on, and being supporting you. But nooooo instead they question everything, and make you feel like everything is a dumb, or bad idea. One of other friends said to me maybe shes just upset that you guys won't be able to spend as much time together, or go guy scouting together. But its so silly... IMO

Don't worry Cherese, you will be fine, as long as you have great true friends with you.
bride2b24 Posted:

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mine are being pretty good.....although i can sense when not to talk wedding....

Meaghan729 Posted:

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half mine are married -

and don't worry, I was a BM in a friends wedding and am now the MOH because her original MOH turned out to be a stinker!!

now you know who really cares about you!
transamgirlie Posted:

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mine are all ok - plus it's still early in the game in their eyes. So we only talk about it when necessary - to them it's no biggie really.

MrsMichel07 Posted:

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Posted by MrsMichel07


Posted by brittny817


Posted by MrsMichel07

jealous that you are getting married and making you feel like you are doing something wrong



Sweetie I went through the same kind of thing with my MOH who is also my best friend. She was always negative and being difficult about everything from dresses to having lunch. I didn't say anything but I pulled away from her and I think she realized she was being a b-tch. She has come around a bit. She has been engaged to her fiance for 2 years and they still haven't set a date so yes jealousy can come to play with some friends. Cheer up and don't let her ruin this special time for you!



Ahaha.... she is my BF tooooo!!!
I am not really concern with it anymore- we had a little falling out a couple of years ago and stop speaking for like a year and now we had another falling out with she is totally to blame for....I will keep it moving and will not let her get me down- I am so at peace with myself.... no that I have tried to reach out to her two times- includeing today with no response...... now I can say that I honestly tried.

I WILL Shine on MAY , 12, 2007 with all of my REAL FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!



You'll shine like a diamond baby!!!

MrsMichel07 Posted:

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Posted by Vicky423

I am kind of going through the same thing with my MOH/BF. Its so annoying b/c they should be one of the people cheering you on, and being supporting you. But nooooo instead they question everything, and make you feel like everything is a dumb, or bad idea. One of other friends said to me maybe shes just upset that you guys won't be able to spend as much time together, or go guy scouting together. But its so silly... IMO

Don't worry Cherese, you will be fine, as long as you have great true friends with you.



TY... u will be find as well.
Acbrideny Posted:

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My MOH acted excited for the first few weeks but now shes practically dropped out of my life. I have stopped talking about any of my wedding plans with her so she doesn't comment on them the way she has been....In fact she never really asks me anyway. I am starting to question my decision.

missgwife Posted:

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Posted by MrsMichel07

jealous that you are getting married and making you feel like you are doing something wrong




That's really f'up how people can never be happy for each other.
If she's a true friend, she come around, if not, you still have your 06/07 girls.
Acbrideny Posted:

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I know we need to get together! The only people who are happy and care seem to be the people who are happy too!

ant n tilde Posted:

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i'm sorry that you are going through this! i hope you have someone else to support you as you go crazy with planning!

i had the same problem with some friends - but i just distanced myself from them -i remained civil but i dont want to be around negativity while i am trying to really enjoy this time!

luckily my closest friends are probably just as excited as i am!

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