Who has siblings....

Julestrd Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:03 AM

Who has siblings....

I meant to put all this in but hit enter before I could

ETA: My little sister is such a winer, she gets her college payed for even though she will most likely fail, and my parents aren't giving me a single cent so far for my wedding. Her car just broke down and guess who payed for it, it sure as **** wasn't her....I think I am just so mad right now, had to vent

peeweesgirl Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:03 AM

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I have a sister

dm24angel Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:10 AM

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My mom had just me, my dad had 8...7 girls!! and guess whos the LAST to get married...guess who gets the least because of this, no college money, no wedding help, nothing so I UNDERSTAND how you feel...oh well, makes you a stronger person in the end!

Julestrd Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:12 AM

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You what else pisses me off, is my parents complain about paying for this and that yet they give her more and more money!!

dm24angel Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:18 AM

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how old is she?

Julestrd Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:19 AM

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peeweesgirl Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:22 AM

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See it has been that way all my life but until my sister first, Car, Education, whatever but me hand me down car (which was fine with me I was just excited to have 4 wheels) I mean it is not that I am pissed or anything but it use to make me sad , like why her not me but since I got engaged they are super supportive , Sometimes it's better for it to be the way it is I understand more and am more greatful for what I got.

peeweesgirl Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:22 AM

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Posted by Julestrd

19

How old are you??????

Julestrd Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:25 AM

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peeweesgirl Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:27 AM

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Maybe they think because your older that you don't need any assistance ( not that you do ) but maybe they feel she needs it more then you?? I don't know but I do understand but the weird thing is my sister is older.

chmpgnrose Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:28 AM

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I have a younger bro. by one year. DH also has a younger bro. but by two years. We're both the eldest which we both made A LOT of sacrifices in our lifetime. Sacrifices on our part meant a lot of hardship to follow on our ends. The youngest always have it easy.

dm24angel Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:31 AM

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Im not so sure, I was the semi youngest and still if I was the 'last' to do something I got nothing that the others got, maybe because I didnt show the NEED , do they know you need help or are upset she gets the things you didnt/dont?

peeweesgirl Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:32 AM

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Posted by dm24angel

Im not so sure, I was the semi youngest and still if I was the 'last' to do something I got nothing that the others got, maybe because I didnt show the NEED , do they know you need help or are upset she gets the things you didnt/dont?

Um hello I was the youngest and it wasn't that way which I thought was weird I always thought the baby got it all but NO big sis did ! LOL I felt a little mad when I typed that LOLOLOL

Julestrd Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:33 AM

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I think I am more mad that they have been telling me they have so much money for our wedding and I still haven't seen a penny, yet my sister can get college payed for even though we were told we were going to get money since last summer and she just started this past semester.

peeweesgirl Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:39 AM

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Posted by Julestrd

I think I am more mad that they have been telling me they have so much money for our wedding and I still haven't seen a penny, yet my sister can get college payed for even though we were told we were going to get money since last summer and she just started this past semester.

I would be to ....I hate broken promises or empty ones ..it not like we are ungreatful just disappointed It's like don't say anything if you plan on not following through.. Oh I sooooo know this feeling , I would have been fine if they never said anything

Julestrd Posted: Mar 25, 2004 12:41 AM

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You know what also makes it worse, is that my dad said I will have money for you in June, oh really and where is that money coming from?
You are exactly right about if they would have never said anything I would be fine. And...FIL have plenty of money to give up do you think they have offered us anything!!!