We are not, We have 4 on each side, but someone we know is. they are doing 11 on each side. what are your thoughts on this?
I was thinking..
11 on her side 11 on his side that is 22 now i would think its only right to invite them with guests that is 44 people and thats just the BP!!
if you have a guest list of 200 thats almost 1/4 of your guestlist..
ETA: I am having a hard enough time finding a dress that will look good on 4 girls i couldnt imagine finding one for 11
Mrs A in May
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yeah that's pretty intense. We're having 5 on each side. A lot of people choose to have large BPs but that is so not for me!
missliss
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I only have 6 on my side. But FH has 11.
About half of them are married/have a gf, the other half aren't dating anyone and aren't the type to bring a date just to bring a date. They'll just hang our w/their crew like usual. All of my girls but 2 are married, the other 2 won't bring dates with them, I'm pretty positive.
Collweenie21
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H ells no! I'm only doing 4! FH wanted to push it up to 5 and I said NOPE! I like it just the way it is! Plus flowers start getting pricey!
kslmbuggie
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that is a lot, but u would end up inviting all those people anyway, so it really isnt adding 2 your guest list....the only thing is u have to buy gifts for all those people which can get costly.
Mrs. V 2008
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i couldn't imagine! im doing 6
bluegreen08
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We are having 5 and 5 with no kids. We would love to have a flowergirl/ring bearer but there are no kids.... unless we were to rent some!
Espo22
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we have a large bridal party...Some are in relationships and some are single...those that are in relationships we are close to their SO, so we kinda dont see it as 'and guest' for them and having to invite extra ppl...whether theyre in our bp or not they would all still be invited...i know the guys that are single in the bp are coming alone
dajc23
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Right now we're at 7 and 7...but FH wanted to add 2 more people on his side. because we have 4 brothers between the both of us, so that takes up alot of his groomsmen, and he has alot of close friends he wants in there too..so it might be 9 and 9!! not to mention 2 jr bms, 2 jr. ushers and a RB
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Posted by kslmbuggie
that is a lot, but u would end up inviting all those people anyway, so it really isnt adding 2 your guest list....the only thing is u have to buy gifts for all those people which can get costly.
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thats a good point they would be invited anyway.
the thought of finding 1 dress for all still stresses me out
We each have 11, so 22 total :) Plus ushers and ring bearer......
Katie&Chris2006
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We had 8 and 8, plus I had my 3 guy best friends on my side as well. 2 FGs, 1 RB. Wouldn't have had it any other way...I couldn't have done it without each and every one of them. It was 24 people in all.
kimnsteve
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i have 10 Bm 10 GM 2 FG and 1 RB
jgl
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wow a lot of you have large BP. I think its great and it does make for great pictures but are you findiing it a bit stressful? i know a lot of girls on here complain about their BMs being difficult or not helping.
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Posted by jgl
wow a lot of you have large BP. I think its great and it does make for great pictures but are you findiing it a bit stressful? i know a lot of girls on here complain about their BMs being difficult or not helping.
im the opposite, i get complaints that i need to hurry up with things and asked so when are we doing this? lol how horrible of me, i really need to get on top of things lol
jgl
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Posted by Espo22
Posted by jgl
wow a lot of you have large BP. I think its great and it does make for great pictures but are you findiing it a bit stressful? i know a lot of girls on here complain about their BMs being difficult or not helping.
im the opposite, i get complaints that i need to hurry up with things and asked so when are we doing this? lol how horrible of me, i really need to get on top of things lol
haha that is like me. Im so lazy about all of this. My BM keeps asking about a dress haha. my BMs are so great though im very lucky!
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I'm doing 10 and 10 plus 2 flower girls and 1 ring bearer
