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Who is paying for what?

Original post by BethGail

Who is paying for what at your wedding?
Just curious (if you dont mind!)
THANKS!
LADYLUV69 Posted:

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FH and I are paying for everything. It is better that way b/c we control every aspects of the wedding. We did not want any one telling us what we can and can not do, or who we can invite. I'M IN CONTROL AND I'M LOVING IT!!!
jw11897 Posted:

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Me and FH are paying for everything ourselves.

It is actually working out to be not as hard as I thought it would be.
julz33 Posted:

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We are paying for everything ourselves... except my mom bought me my dress
AJsMommy122 Posted:

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We are on our own for EVERYTHING
The only 2 things we dont have to pay for are my dress ( my mom paid)
and our favors ( my fmil is paying)
We foot the bill for everything else
chicagogal Posted:

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My mom and dad are paying for dinner and I'm paying for everything else.

kiwijonze Posted:

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We're doing a three-way split among us, my parents, and his parents. But, my mom and his mom are not in agreement over how much FH's and my contribution should be, so this should get interesting
nov.bride Posted:

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We are paying for everything 100%

as1inmay Posted:

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MY FIL'S ARE PAYING FOR THE HONEYMOON AND MY PARENTS ARE PAYING FOR THE HALL. MY SISTER PAID FOR MY DRESS AND WE ARE PAYING FOR EVERYTHING ELSE.

nferrandi Posted:

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My parents payed for the e-party, my dress, invitations, hair/makeup, and the hall. They're also letting us use their timeshares for 2 weeks for the HM and they gave us miles to buy our airfare.
Mt FILs are paying for the band, photographer and rehearsal dinner.
FH and I are paying for flowers, limos, favors, bp gifts, HM spending and all other things that come up.
BCTM33 Posted:

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My parents are paying for most - we are paying for some of the extra vendors and little details I want (candy apples, candy buffet, etc.)

Bunnymonkey Posted:

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To their joy, my parents are paying for about 90% of it - and I am eternally grateful! Without them, there would be no wedding.

Any beauty stuff for me (shoes, veil, makeup, hair) I am paying for myself. And I don't plan on asking for money every time I order little stuff online for favors, hotel room bags, etc...That would be excessive!
May05Bride Posted:

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My parents are paying for Video/Phone = 10K.... and FI and I are paying for EVERYTHING else


dita531 Posted:

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My parents payed for the Engagement Party, and are paying for the Hall, Limos, Photographer, some Flowers,DJ,Video,Invites and airfare for the honeymoon.

I payed for my gown and accesories,favors at the e party, invites for e party,deposit on honeymoon. He paid for pre cana, church fee and the rest of the honeymoon.

His parents are paying for some of the church flowers and the RD.
Pookiesangel Posted:

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My Parents are paying for the reception, church, my dress and accessories, and probably my MOH (my sister) dress

FH & I are paying for photo's, flower's, limo's and dj

My sister (MOH) is paying for our invites and favors as our engagement gift..

My brother is paying for the church flowers as our engagement gift.

FH parents are paying for RD & Honeymoon
CaCRmr Posted:

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Posted by LADYLUV69

FH and I are paying for everything. It is better that way b/c we control every aspects of the wedding. We did not want any one telling us what we can and can not do, or who we can invite. I'M IN CONTROL AND I'M LOVING IT!!!




WOW I totally agree with you on that.
thiadora Posted:

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The contributions between are parents are relatively equal.

My parents: Ceremony fee, the hall, my dress, my under garments, and a bunch of misc. stuff

FILs: DJ, flowers, photo, video, officiant, rehersal dinner

Me: veil, head piece, shoes, wedding jewelry (necklace and earrings), ceremony musicians, piantist for cocktail hour, BM gifts

FH: Our rings, GM gifts

FH & me: Honeymoon
bridzilla Posted:

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my parents: reception and DJ
FH's parents: Photo and video and Honey moon
US: Everything else
NPbride Posted:

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Posted by Donna&Joe708

My parents are paying for my gown. My FH and I are paying for everything else.



Same here!
brooklynbridezilla Posted:

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We are paying for everything.

Karen62794 Posted:

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My parents pretty much paid for everything. We paid for the bridal party gifts, the live singer to sing during dinner, our rings, and a few other things.

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