and if your mother is paying do you put her on the invite?? like Hosted by???
Host by : MOH, Bridesmaid, and mom's name?
miss nee
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100%bridal party .. mom cries broke more than u can imagine ..
Snickers76
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i am pretty sure my bms are paying entirely.
prinses777
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But what if my mommy is paying...
Shouldn't her name also be on the invite as hosting?
snowcutie82
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i believe itll be my bp also with my moh chipping in a little more than the rest.
i read online that your parents arent supposed to to host it because it looks like theyre 'asking for gifts' and that its usually the moh but that's just a general guideline...im sure it doesnt really matter as long as everyone is okay with it.
Mrs. V 2008
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mom and bridal party
Mrs.D08
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MOH and Best Man
butapecan3
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my mom
MattandTricia07
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My mom is paying for it
happygirl07
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Mom, one of my sisters and my wonderful bridal party.
prinses777
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So if your Mom's are paying,
Who are you putting as hosting the party on the invties???
AJSBABYGIRL
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My sister, My mom and my bridal party I think!!!
DandS
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My mother paid for the shower and the invitations, and the BP paid for decorations and favors. My mother put everyone on the invitation, her, my MIL, and the BP.
Kris10546
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I voted 50/50 but it might be more my BMs like 80/20. My parents are paying for my entire RH (which is a HUGE help) but I know my mom will want to chip in some so thats probably how they will work it out with 4 BMs so they will probably split it 5 ways.
TakingtheLongWay
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I'm thinking bridal party, my mom, and his mom...
nifheim
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My parents are not paying for our wedding at all but one thing my mom did say is she is deff. paying for the shower. It is something she wants to control so i smiled and said whatever you wish and i would be happy with anything! SOO happy about that.
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Posted by prinses777
So if your Mom's are paying,
Who are you putting as hosting the party on the invties???
If she is paying for the whole thing then yes you have to put her on the invite as hosting it
prinses777
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Posted by Espo22
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So if your Mom's are paying,
Who are you putting as hosting the party on the invties???
If she is paying for the whole thing then yes you have to put her on the invite as hosting it
You see... Thats what I think too!!! But she said just to put the bridal party... But I think it is only fair to put her too!
Right!?
hmpena
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My bp paid for the shower 100%. They didn't put who it was hosted by on my invite.
Espo22
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So if your Mom's are paying,
Who are you putting as hosting the party on the invties???
If she is paying for the whole thing then yes you have to put her on the invite as hosting it
You see... Thats what I think too!!! But she said just to put the bridal party... But I think it is only fair to put her too!
Right!?
Personally i think it is only right...I mean if she is gonna pay for the whole thing then why give the credit to someone else and thats not you being against your bp but if they were paying for it i am sure they wouldn't like it if you put something completely different.
My mom is paying too and if she is gonna do all that then i want her to get the credit for it, thats just me...But if you also think its only right and its what you will be comfortable with too then definitely say that
