Who isn't getting married at the church/temple?

Original post by dannisayz

Mar 25, 2008 01:38 PM

I've noticed that many of you ladies are getting married in church. I feel like I'm the only one getting married at the RH. Is anyone else getting married at the RH?

sheeshamuff Posted: Mar 25, 2008 03:15 PM

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We are getting married at the RH and have been dealing with some crap from family members. ugh.

dannisayz Posted: Mar 25, 2008 03:20 PM

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Posted by teenigrrl

Posted by dannisayz

Posted by teenigrrl

i did! my dad was a little upset, but we're not religious, so it really didn't matter to him. he probably would have just preferred a church. DH's parents are religious, but they didn't mind at all, and we were shocked by that. but they felt it was our wedding, we should do it how we wanted to. and they're pretty old school, so we were very pleasantly surprised by their reaction.

My grandparents and FH's mother seem to be the only ones angry about it.

Do you plan on having a church wedding on your 1st anniversary?

not at all! we're not religious, so we don't feel the need to get married in a church.

Ah. FH isn't too religious, but he still calls himself a Catholic. I'm pagan, so my faith is a bit more private.

Hillary0912 Posted: Mar 25, 2008 03:33 PM

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Me!!!!

roan126 Posted: Mar 25, 2008 03:34 PM

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I am!!!

Two Peas Posted: Mar 25, 2008 03:38 PM

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Im getting married at my RH...

csaburro Posted: Mar 25, 2008 03:55 PM

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I am! FH is divorced, etc...he didn't really want to get married in a religious ceremony anyway.

kewlpuff Posted: Mar 25, 2008 04:07 PM

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we're doing the ceremony at the RH too!!!

PreshusSmurf Posted: Mar 25, 2008 04:15 PM

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We got married at the RH, and it was PERFECT!

I loved that my guests didn't have to figure out what to do for 3+ hours between the ceremony & reception.

We had an interfaith ceremony, officiated by a Rabbi and a Priest. The RH was neutral ground

And I guess we were lucky, we didn't get any flack from anyone ... most likely because of the interfaith factor, where else would we have it?

Bklyn08Bride Posted: Mar 25, 2008 04:23 PM

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We're having our ceremony at our RH, and to add fuel to that whole fire, my lil sister is getting ordained on line so she can perform the ceremony. Thank God my parents nor FH's parents are very religous. So far we haven't gotten any flack about it but my people know me, and if someone said something against my plans I would have NO problem telling them what to do with thier opinion. Everyone knows I can be a little bit of a beast with out wedding planning stress, so they tend to doubly watch what they say around me. So far all the feedback has been positive, who knows what said behind my back.

hannahshim Posted: Mar 25, 2008 04:24 PM

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i am!!

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Mar 25, 2008 04:43 PM

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i am getting married at the RH

liangel901 Posted: Mar 25, 2008 04:51 PM

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liangel901 Posted: Mar 25, 2008 04:52 PM

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were getting married at our RH. in my opinion its easier for the guests because they go straight from the ceremony into the cocktail hour

babygirlb Posted: Mar 25, 2008 06:22 PM

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I am getting married at the reception hall and not everyone was happy about it.

Libba Posted: Mar 25, 2008 06:57 PM

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Looks like you're not alone. We're also getting married at our RH.

Cutechef729 Posted: Mar 25, 2008 07:02 PM

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i am!

Cutechef729 Posted: Mar 25, 2008 07:04 PM

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Posted by Bklyn08Bride

We're having our ceremony at our RH, and to add fuel to that whole fire, my lil sister is getting ordained on line so she can perform the ceremony. Thank God my parents nor FH's parents are very religous. So far we haven't gotten any flack about it but my people know me, and if someone said something against my plans I would have NO problem telling them what to do with thier opinion. Everyone knows I can be a little bit of a beast with out wedding planning stress, so they tend to doubly watch what they say around me. So far all the feedback has been positive, who knows what said behind my back.

Our close friend is getting ordained online to perform our ceremony too. One of the groomsman called our wedding a mockery so I threw something at him. As long as it's legal in New York State I am happy.

empressdani Posted: Mar 25, 2008 07:17 PM

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We're not getting married at a church but not at our RH..if that makes any sense. FH and I really wanted an outdoor wedding and our RH doesn't have an area for that so we had to 'outsource' lol I'm sooo happy we chose where we did b.c no going to another place for pics!