Who put a post yesterday that they thought their BM

DaniandKen2010 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 04:03 PM

Who put a post yesterday that they thought their BM

was bailing. I want to know how the conversation went and was that really it?

Soon2bShea Posted: Nov 10, 2009 04:15 PM

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oh yeah! who was that

jcreilly Posted: Nov 10, 2009 04:25 PM

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Oh that was me
she is going thur a lot of money problems ( and so are her parents) and she was going to bail ( crying as she told me) but I told her not to and I would just pay off the rest of the dress, she already has shoes and was already planning on doing her own hair and I will also have her makeup done! She felt really bad and said she will still be at the wedding as a guest but I told her she will still be a BM and up there with me and FH and our friends, and that I don't want a gift in end she felt guilt but was happy, I am going over there tonight to help her go over her bills and get her back on track and see if she can trade her car in to something less expensive because the car payment is a lot more then a thought! I will just be her friend and try to help her! she said she has not slept and looked like it and is really stress over her finances and I do not want anyone strssing over my wedding but me!
If anyone knows of a good company to consulate credit cards that would be helpful!

Golden Posted: Nov 10, 2009 04:28 PM

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Wow! I'm glad you met with her. You're being a good friend to her, that's commendable!

scatteredx12 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 04:48 PM

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aww thats very nice of you and its nice that she was straight forward and honest with you. hopefully she's able to work things out.

DaniandKen2010 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 05:09 PM

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I'm glad I was right and it was a money thing and you are being great about it which I am sure she appreciates so much.

Lady12 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 05:20 PM

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So good that you talked to her! Sometimes I get so caught up in my own 'wedding world' that I forget that my friends have their own issues at times, so then I have to stop myself, slow down and make it about my friends.

slyman1101 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 06:15 PM

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Posted by jcreilly

Oh that was me
she is going thur a lot of money problems ( and so are her parents) and she was going to bail ( crying as she told me) but I told her not to and I would just pay off the rest of the dress, she already has shoes and was already planning on doing her own hair and I will also have her makeup done! She felt really bad and said she will still be at the wedding as a guest but I told her she will still be a BM and up there with me and FH and our friends, and that I don't want a gift in end she felt guilt but was happy, I am going over there tonight to help her go over her bills and get her back on track and see if she can trade her car in to something less expensive because the car payment is a lot more then a thought! I will just be her friend and try to help her! she said she has not slept and looked like it and is really stress over her finances and I do not want anyone strssing over my wedding but me!
If anyone knows of a good company to consulate credit cards that would be helpful!

wow what a good friend you are! congrats
you have a big heart and she is lucky to have you