who sits at which table?

Is Table #1 usually used for the bride's family, and Table #2 for the groom's? Do people (like non-immediate family) actually get offended if they sit at a higher numbered table than someone else?

is it worthwhile to just spend the extra few dollars (and hours) to make table names instead of numbers?

TIA

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

Is Table #1 usually used for the bride's family, and Table #2 for the groom's? Do people (like non-immediate family) actually get offended if they sit at a higher numbered table than someone else?

is it worthwhile to just spend the extra few dollars (and hours) to make table names instead of numbers?

TIA

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It totally doesn't matter at all.

I think my mom and her family sat at table 2 and my dad and his family were at table 1. DH's family was at table 3, I think.

It totally does not matter at all.

People get insulted when you sit them by the door or under the speakers. But someone has to sit there. So do whatever you want.

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Posted by springsandra

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

Is Table #1 usually used for the bride's family, and Table #2 for the groom's? Do people (like non-immediate family) actually get offended if they sit at a higher numbered table than someone else?

is it worthwhile to just spend the extra few dollars (and hours) to make table names instead of numbers?

TIA

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It totally doesn't matter at all.

I think my mom and her family sat at table 2 and my dad and his family were at table 1. DH's family was at table 3, I think.

It totally does not matter at all.

People get insulted when you sit them by the door or under the speakers. But someone has to sit there. So do whatever you want.

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thanks i always remember something my boss told me when i first started my job ... he said that i should always put people's email addy's in order of importance (most important people at the front of the list) ... he said that drama has started in the past because people got offended ... i guess i just got freaked out