Search in your own words. Describe what you need or ask a wedding planning question.
Just a question when people ask for feedback on halls who thinks its rude to insult a place. I personally will write good things but I feel bad to trash a hall that other girls on here are booked at. I feel like if I dont say anything the person can see for themselves but to trash is mean bc someone else is getting married there? Am i wrong?
I don't agree with trashing but I do want to hear the positives and the negatives. I am not going to fall out of love with my hall just because someone else didn't like it but there are some things I'd like to be prepared for. I think it's nice when girls do a mini review and it doesn't bother me if they've mentioned a negative thing. Its good to hear some things that aren't always like 'it's great' and that's that.
I agree, i see alot of RH's being trashed. Yes people want honesty but things can also be worded differently and not that you have to keep to yourself how you feel but for example, you dont have to write 'UGH not my taste at all, its so gaudy, tacky and blah' If its not your taste simply say 'it wasn't the right look for what we were looking for, doesnt go with the rest of my vision' the same way those same ppl say its not their taste guess what their RH's are not alot of peoples taste either. If there is anything you didn't like or the service then state what the problem was and thats it.
Posted by madseason
Insulting and giving feedback are 2 different things....
Its rude to say that place ABC suckss @ss. Thats just a dumb comment and in no way informative
But to say, oh FYI - when I went to a wedding at ABC i didnt care for the food, or the service was slow....THATS feedback and I feel thats appropriate. I would want to know others experiences at my hall, so I can address them. I value others, esp non brides experiences alot.
Posted by madseason
Insulting and giving feedback are 2 different things....
Its rude to say that place ABC suckss @ss. Thats just a dumb comment and in no way informative
But to say, oh FYI - when I went to a wedding at ABC i didnt care for the food, or the service was slow....THATS feedback and I feel thats appropriate. I would want to know others experiences at my hall, so I can address them. I value others, esp non brides experiences alot.
Posted by madseason
Insulting and giving feedback are 2 different things....
Its rude to say that place ABC suckss @ss. Thats just a dumb comment and in no way informative
But to say, oh FYI - when I went to a wedding at ABC i didnt care for the food, or the service was slow....THATS feedback and I feel thats appropriate. I would want to know others experiences at my hall, so I can address them. I value others, esp non brides experiences alot.
Posted by autumnbride10
Posted by madseason
Insulting and giving feedback are 2 different things....
Its rude to say that place ABC suckss @ss. Thats just a dumb comment and in no way informative
But to say, oh FYI - when I went to a wedding at ABC i didnt care for the food, or the service was slow....THATS feedback and I feel thats appropriate. I would want to know others experiences at my hall, so I can address them. I value others, esp non brides experiences alot.
Exactly...feedback is appropriate, and necessary if a bride is asking for it. She could be trying to make up her mind between two halls it could be very helpful in her making up her mind. If she has already booked, then it's still good info for her to have, so she can address any concerns about it to the hall.....
Posted by Espo22
Posted by madseason
Insulting and giving feedback are 2 different things....
Its rude to say that place ABC suckss @ss. Thats just a dumb comment and in no way informative
But to say, oh FYI - when I went to a wedding at ABC i didnt care for the food, or the service was slow....THATS feedback and I feel thats appropriate. I would want to know others experiences at my hall, so I can address them. I value others, esp non brides experiences alot.
what i was trying to say but you said it much better hahahaha. Theres a different between an informative feedback and just someone being NASTY
Posted by Espo22
I agree, i see alot of RH's being trashed. Yes people want honesty but things can also be worded differently and not that you have to keep to yourself how you feel but for example, you dont have to write 'UGH not my taste at all, its so gaudy, tacky and blah' If its not your taste simply say 'it wasn't the right look for what we were looking for, doesnt go with the rest of my vision' the same way those same ppl say its not their taste guess what their RH's are not alot of peoples taste either. If there is anything you didn't like or the service then state what the problem was and thats it.
Exactly! I just dont like when people say things that isnt helpful like its tacky..um hello we know what it looks like lol. If its helpful like 'slow service' 'food not to my taste' its cool we can all learn from that.
Posted by madseason
oh wow....you girls have made my day - a triple quoter!!!![]()
![]()
![]()
![]()
Denise how are you feeling???
Posted by lizzie217
Exactly! I just dont like when people say things that isnt helpful like its tacky..um hello we know what it looks like lol. If its helpful like 'slow service' 'food not to my taste' its cool we can all learn from that.
Posted by Mici n KC
Posted by lizzie217
Exactly! I just dont like when people say things that isnt helpful like its tacky..um hello we know what it looks like lol. If its helpful like 'slow service' 'food not to my taste' its cool we can all learn from that.
I don't even listen to people about the food thing based on here. We all have different tastes of food. What someone hates I may really like.
Posted by NapaValleyGirl
I totally agree. there is a difference between feedback (for example, the servers were slow.. make sure you address with the hall before booking)
and then there is trashing which is
'service stinks! Room is tacky!'
Posted by Mici n KC
Posted by NapaValleyGirl
I totally agree. there is a difference between feedback (for example, the servers were slow.. make sure you address with the hall before booking)
and then there is trashing which is
'service stinks! Room is tacky!'
So true. It may be very elegant and they think it's tacky!![]()
I would never trash a place - if you know something about the service or staff, etc. then you should let it be known.
