whos addy did u use and whats the avg when u got most rsvp?

my mom seems insulted i dont want rsvps sent back to her house. im guessing thats the 'right' way for it to be done?!
Well when i told her i was going to send them to my house she seemed mad. i only wanted to do that since i no longer live in NY! Well now im mailing invites at the end of Oct w. an RSVP of Dec 5th! Do you think most ppl will send them b4 thanksgiving or after?! After turkey day i will be in NY and prob stayin till the wedding and as sad as it sounds i wanna be there too open them all!! haha So now ? is do i use my parents addy in NY or my NC addy?? if i mail them too NC my fi will get them...so thats fine as well. (not as fine as me getting them but i can deal! LOL)

oh i didnt even think of the $$$ reason

well my parents are giving a lump some....but we are paying for the rest and more. So if it goes by that i guess mailing them to my house in NC is the right thing to do!?!????

I honestly don't know what the proper thing to do is. I guess I felt since both parents names were on the invite I wanted to give my parents a little extra credit. Is that bad? Anyway, you should probably really have them sent to where it would be most convenient for you to get them.

thats how i thought of it....so i figured NC! But now that i will be in NY from late Nov till the wedding....thats whats making me want it to go to NY! ERRRR
i just wanted to know if id prob get majority of my rsvp b4 thanksgiving, i know theres no real answer just thought maybe ppl can give me an idea! lol

The address would probably depend on who is inviting the guest. If on the invitation it is the parents inviting the guest to the wedding of their daughter, then I would put the RSVP address as your parents. But if YOU invited the guest to your wedding, then the RSVPs would go back to you.

We are paying for the wedding and our invites do not include the parents, so the RSVPs are being addressed to my address.