During this whole planning process we've seen girls vent about mean people and vendors unwilling to work with you, BM's that are complaining every step of the way, and even family members giving you a hard time over the simplest decision...BUT, who has been there for you every step of the way (besides FH!) ?? Who has really stepped up and gotten into it??
For me its my MOH! She's just as into everything as I am... I can talk to her about weddings 24/7 and go to her over the tiniest little detail and know I am getting her honest opinion on everything. She has come to every apt with me, narrowed down all choices with me and researched things like crazy for me....to my MOH-
Couldn't do it without her!
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all of my BMs have been wonderful - so supportive, willing to do anything and with a smile! I love them all so much. And my mom and dad have been amazing!!
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One of my BM - she's been the one to always get back to me quickly when I email something (question or pic or whatever) and helped me with finding or deciding on my vendors.
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My MOH- Jess aka Belongs2DanBuckley!
I FACKING LOVE YOU BIITCH!
and my BM Veronica picks up alot of my slack and tries to keep me sane. Calls me randomly to see how plans are going and how I AM doing. She also is amazing.
And last but no way least- MY MOTHER! Shes AMAZING! She picks up, drops off, does ANYTHING I cant do while Im at work!
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i would have to say one oh my moh and a bm.. they both have been great.. and I sometimes think they are more into planning then i am .
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Lets see...
My one BM has been around to go for my first dress shopping and has just been there through everything so far.
My MOH and my mother have really started helping out in the last few weeks and are just great!!
And I can't forget Penny (lilqtpie2181), a good friend met through this site, and listens to me vent during the day, and is very patient when I ask her opinion and send her TONS of pictures with ideas! Love ya girl!!
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Posted by MrsMagoo
Lets see...
My one BM has been around to go for my first dress shopping and has just been there through everything so far.
My MOH and my mother have really started helping out in the last few weeks and are just great!!
And I can't forget Penny (lilqtpie2181), a good friend met through this site, and listens to me vent during the day, and is very patient when I ask her opinion and send her TONS of pictures with ideas! Love ya girl!!
awwwww Magoo... I luv ya girl! im always here to lend a heloing hand when i can!!! even after the wedding comes and goes. xoxo
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my dad, grandmother, moh's, my FMIL, my cube mate at work and most of my bm's have all listened to all my vents, answered my questions and giving their honest opinons whenever i needed them.
ETA: and how could i forget- all of u girls have been so wonderful to me!!
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No one...everyone has had a complaint or a comment at one point or another. It s*cks.
My sister has been the best about it though. But no one is 'into it.'
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Hmmm....even though FH isn't involved in certain things, when I need something, he is most definitely there. That's why I love him- you can always count on him!
My sister/co-MOH, as you can all tell, has been huge in all this- not only designing everything, but she's been just as excited about it as I am. My other sister/MOH has been great with the bachelorette party stuff too....
Mom's there to listen but sometimes she's in la-la land. Then again maybe I talk about it too much!
Thank the lord for this board!!! When my family's had enough, I know I can come to you girls!
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My 'right hand man' has got to be my MOH!! I have cried on the phone with her, laughed about certain things and of course drank when there were the bridzilla days oh and did i mention DRANK . Granted there were one or two things that we didn;t agree on but through everything she has been right there. ALways calls me to make sure I am okay and took on the responsiblity of having the vendors call her if there is a problem because she didn;t want me to FREAK OUT THere is only one month left and it seems to be the toughest with certain vendors so we will see what happens when the heat really gets turned up. WAIT!!! we can DRINK
CONGRATS everyone Have a Good Day!!!!
Athee07
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my mother!!!! 200% shes hasnt doubted or said a word about my wedding just supported every single thing i have chosen! i love her sooooo much
lilqtpie2181
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I would have to say the biggest help i have had throught the wedding and house process is my FH even with the little stuff that he might not give 2 hoots about he still sits and listens to me. When it comes to the big stuff h was super helpful!! I told him im not marrying myself so his a$$ better be involved in his own wedding process
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my BF...even though she's married & has 2 kids and her own business she has made the time to go to a million dress places with me, looks at endless pics in e-mails I send her, and always calls to say hi and check in! Plus she was a huge help in recommending vendors..and she is always excited about wedding stuff!
Marly
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My FH and MOH are.....
MrsB2BE
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My Mother has been the best - she didn't have a big wedding when she got married so she has been such a big help - She supports my decisions and has been a great support system.
My MOH - she is the best friend a girl could ask for - Despite the fact that we are all waiting for her boyfriend to propose she has been so helpful and supportive.
And of course my ladies on Ebonybridalplanner and the ladies on LIW......
Unapearla
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Shmar! (real name Martina)
She's my good friend, co-worker and liwedding bride to be!
We talk everyday about our wedding plans and she's been awesome!
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My MOH -- she's awesome, but so is my BP.
portjeffbride
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I was going to say FH, becuase he is the only one who has been at vendor meetings, and making decisions.
The only other person we're bumping ideas off of (what entrees to choose, what florist to pick, fitting appointments) at all is my mom.... so I have a right hand MOM. No one else is really involved at all with planning....
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I've done a lot of it myself, but I would be lost with out my cousin who lives in Ireland (she's one of my BMs). She's made all the phone calls and appts and is the middle person for me! I love her and definitely would be crazy without her!
