Whose bridal shower is a surprise?

LT Posted: May 19, 2008 01:56 PM

Whose bridal shower is a surprise?

I am not sure that i want my bridal shower to be a surprise. I kind of just want to be there and greet people as they come in. I'm not for the whole surprise thing. Anybody else with me on this??

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: May 19, 2008 01:57 PM

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mine was a COMPLETE surprise and I loved it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

fdny3113 Posted: May 19, 2008 01:58 PM

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I kinda want to be surprised!! I always find out things before hand. but i do feel weird not knowing what's going on!!!

Browneyesncute Posted: May 19, 2008 01:59 PM

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mine is a suprise and its killing me!

SoonToBeMrsSchombs Posted: May 19, 2008 02:02 PM

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Mine is SUPPOSED to be a surprise, but I am not that easy to fool. I'm fairly certain I know when it is...it was discussed amongst my BM's that it would be the same weekend as my bach. party so they didnt need to travel so much. That is fine with me, but I did tell them I wanted to be surprised about everything else...

mariana881 Posted: May 19, 2008 02:02 PM

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mine is not a surprise and I am fine with that!! I'm sure I will still be surprised with all the little details even though I know when and where it is.

SoonToBeMrsScott Posted: May 19, 2008 02:04 PM

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mine was a surprise boy was it a surprise it wasn't what i expected at all

Jacquelyn Posted: May 19, 2008 02:04 PM

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I want mine to be a suprise even tho I know it wont! My twin sis [MOH] has been telling me every last detail! lol, all well what is a girl to do!

lillprincess54 Posted: May 19, 2008 02:05 PM

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mine was suspose to be, but someone slipped

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: May 19, 2008 02:13 PM

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I hope mine remains a surprise! I have a few ideas - a very good friend of mine who is pregnant with her second child and due in Sept. mentioned that she is going to have a party for her daughter in August instead of October, when her birthday is, so that it's not too crazy with the baby - I have a feeling my shower is going to be at her house and that the party's a cover ... not sure though, just a hunch.

I think the planning is really kicking into high gear though. This weekend, I went away with my sister and when I went to get something out of her diaper bag (well, her baby's diaper bag I guess ) I noticed she had the card I gave her for mother's day in there ... and I took it out and said, 'why do you have this in here?' and I noticed there was writing on the inside... more than I had written .. and she took it from me real quick and said, 'why are you looking at that?' So i think she had something written in there about it ... and then FH asked me for a friend's address last night. I said, is it for my shower? He said no, but when I said, if it is, you're going to need more addresses than that. I will give you the others too.

It is so fun to know they are planning something!!!! Makes me feel very special!!! I can't help but want to figure it out though.

lisa50 Posted: May 19, 2008 02:17 PM

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I didn't want a surprise either. I actually work 7 days a week so FH told me the date so I could take off from work. As far as what time, where etc that all remained a surprise. It worked out very nice this way, and I was totally dressed for it! And I had the best shower ever!

snowcutie82 Posted: May 19, 2008 02:19 PM

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Posted by mariana881

mine is not a surprise and I am fine with that!! I'm sure I will still be surprised with all the little details even though I know when and where it is.

same with me. well i dont know where it is.

i dont like surprises...at all. so a surprise shower would be no fun for me at allllll. i like to be prepared. i am still very excited and look forward to it!

JoeJo Posted: May 19, 2008 02:20 PM

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Mine was a surprise it was great!!!

wo0shply Posted: May 19, 2008 02:27 PM

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I dont want it to be a surprise, but my BMs tried to make it a surprise LOL. One of my BMs spilled the beans by accident and its ok I'm actually glad she did.

MrsMorgan Posted: May 19, 2008 02:29 PM

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Mine is not a surprise and I'm pretty upset about it...my mom is planning mine and she tells me everything.

teenigrrl Posted: May 19, 2008 02:30 PM

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i wanted mine to be a surprise, and it would have been had they not planned it the same day as TWOTY.

LRR223 Posted: May 19, 2008 02:30 PM

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mine is a surprise, but i kinda have an idea when it is...plus, i already know one of my bm's isn't coming...i'm not too happy about that

i think that this is the one time to be surprised.... b/c god knows you won't want any surprises on your wedding day!