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tmcnair414 Posted:

Why?

Vent 1
My bridal shower was great but I didn’t hear about all the crap that went on till after. My mom planned my bridal shower all by herself. One of my bridesmaids never responded my mom had to call her to ask if she was coming and when my mom called her, she said omg I forgot, when is it again. She landed up going but left really early b/c she said she couldn’t get off of work. My MOH which is my sister was there but left early bc she had to catch a plane to go on vacation with friends. Two of my other bridesmaids were there the whole time but did nothing to help out, didn’t even offer. Only one bridesmaid really helped out making my bow hat and bouquet, she stayed late to help clean up. I just feel really bad for my mom because she threw a party catering over 65 people all by herself. I defiantly have to buy her a great mother’s day gift.

Vent 2
I get a call a little awhile ago from my decan saying that the church I am getting married in is going to be under construction on our wedding. So he wants us to meet with him to figure out what to do. I just sent out all the invites with all the church information, if we switch churches we will have to call everyone or mail a card letting ppl no of the change.

Thank you so much for listening ladies!
joctorre Posted:

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So sorry for those things. That's annoying about the church, but definitely not difficult to fix... Just do a quick thing on vistaprint and send out a correction card...

And as far as the shower, that is really really really annoying. How did you find out about it all? Is your mom upset? for her too!!!!
Labelle Posted:

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sorry about the bms noty pulling their weight
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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hopefully the church construction won't really matter (it'll be something small, or in another room)

tmcnair414 Posted:

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Posted by joctorre



So sorry for those things. That's annoying about the church, but definitely not difficult to fix... Just do a quick thing on vistaprint and send out a correction card...

And as far as the shower, that is really really really annoying. How did you find out about it all? Is your mom upset? for her too!!!!



My mom told me, she was very upset that they did not help. It honesty didn't bother me until I saw how upset and heard about how stressed my mom was.
SoontobeGallagher Posted:

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I'm so sorry you and your mom are going through this. That was really not fair to your mom. The BM's should've helped out, and not forget the date of your shower.
joctorre Posted:

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Posted by tmcnair414


Posted by joctorre



So sorry for those things. That's annoying about the church, but definitely not difficult to fix... Just do a quick thing on vistaprint and send out a correction card...

And as far as the shower, that is really really really annoying. How did you find out about it all? Is your mom upset? for her too!!!!



My mom told me, she was very upset that they did not help. It honesty didn't bother me until I saw how upset and heard about how stressed my mom was.



Poor mom, that's not fair at all.... Did she say anything to them after? or have you?? might be touchy, but that's def not cool... Are any of them married?
20mrsc10 Posted:

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omg that's horrible-to both!!!

sheesh i would b*tch out my bms if they pulled something like that
don't worry bout the church though-you can always send out a small correction card
BriansWifey Posted:

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omg is ur church serious?!?!
and im so sorry ur mom had no help from anybody... but im sure she did a great job anyway!

happychelle Posted:

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Im sorry your mom had to do it by herself !

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