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why am I always in awkward situations

JAAMS Posted:

why am I always in awkward situations

About 4 months ago, I emailed my high school teacher to get his address for wedding invitations. Of course I haven't sent them out yet, but I was sending out Save the Dates +++ I wanted to get all my addresses in early.

He never got back to me. I was kinda bummed but whatever, I got over it.

So suddenly he e-mailed me back today! He said congrats, he is catching up on old e-mails, merry christmas, he knows that I emailed him some time ago, but he can't find the original e-mail, and he apologizes. He said 'Congrats, surely you must be married by now!'

But he didn't include an address. Do I ask again? It just seems awkward, like I'm forcing him into giving me an address. What do I say? Or did he just not give it b/c he assumed I am married already? Blah.
RitasEngaged Posted:

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no i wouldn't ask again

grkbarbie Posted:

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let it go

doreen82 Posted:

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no i wouldnt ask again either.

jmgoncal Posted:

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i wouldn't ask

JillandJoe Posted:

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I would say no im not married yet, we r getting married in ____. I would love to send you an invite if you can make it great, if not i know your busy. He can always rsvp no... its not lke ur asking him for his kidney... i say ask again and if he avoids again then walk away... jmo

Kiki1103 Posted:

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ehh, if he didnt respond to you from 4 months ago, he may not respond again to your request for his address or, for that matter, his wedding invitation. I'd just leave it alone.

Maybe say, 'Happy holidays to you too. I am getting married next November' or something like that
KrisD72310 Posted:

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I would probably not ask for the address again.

NovBride10 Posted:

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I wouldn't ask again. Maybe he felt awkward sending you his address so that was his way to get out of it. How could he forget that you wanted to invite him to your wedding?

StaceyWill Posted:

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I wouldn't even respond to it now

SummerBride10 Posted:

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Posted by JillandJoe

I would say no im not married yet, we r getting married in ____. I would love to send you an invite if you can make it great, if not i know your busy. He can always rsvp no... its not lke ur asking him for his kidney... i say ask again and if he avoids again then walk away... jmo



I agree
Clover23 Posted:

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i definitely wouldn't ask again...

JenBill61210 Posted:

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i agree with the above posters... don't pursue it

elisa112101 Posted:

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i wouldnt ask again... JMO

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