Well my Fh has been out of work since we had the eparty in septemeber. I feel like all the money has gone out the window to pay for his bills. Plus im the only one saving money here. Also he has to owe our account $340 already plus he just called to let me know that he needs to take out another $340. I asked him how are you going to repleace $680 back in to the account and save at the same time....... I just dont get how men think.. The Meadow club needs another payment this mth. i want to book my video/photo also this mth. it seems like i cant get ahead with saving for this wedding. If this keeps up im going to have to move it up a year but i dont want to have to do that. Also im having such a bad day at work that i just want to scream and cry so bad. I just cant wait intil he starts his job in 2 weeks so that he can start taken care of me....
Ok vent over i think im going to go in a quiet room and cry i think ill feel better then(PMS)
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I'm sorry to hear this is such a tough time for you.... things will get better over time...the next couple of weeks may be tough but it will get there--- there's always a rainbow after the storm (I know that sounds corny but maybe it made you smile!)
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that stinks
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I completly understand what ur going through... every time I think of the wedding money wise I want to cry.... but hold your head up.. continue to save it will happen!
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CMS
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Sorry you're getting hit the money issues. On the bright side, you said your FH starts his job in two weeks. So just think...this is TOTALLY temporary! Once you get over this hump, it should be OK.
Good luck
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Money *****!... Didn't he just get a job? You will get through it stick to your guns, don't lose heart
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Sorry you're having such a bad day. I know it's hard to look at the bright side but think about the vow you'll take... in good times AND bad. Maybe you're having your bad times a little early, but they will pass.
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Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Sorry you're having such a bad day. I know it's hard to look at the bright side but think about the vow you'll take... in good times AND bad. Maybe you're having your bad times a little early, but they will pass.
i hope so. i just need to go home b/c it is such a bad day. i cant win at work or with my fh today. GRRR!! it seems more like a monday
bluegreen08
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things will get better soon, it's just a matter of time..
ellyoxox
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i'm sorry your having a bad day. don't worry, everything will be fine!
italyngigi
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don't worry just tell him how you feel.
guys don't think.
little34
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Oh....things will get better...hang in there. Everything will work out!
CNC4eva3402
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Everything will work out!! It would be worse if he didn't have a job lined up. In a few weeks things should go back to normal. Sorry your going through this. Money problems can be extremely frustrating!
mdawg
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things ALWAYS work out Keri... even if theyre not how you expected, it ALWAYS works out...
