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Why do people feel the need

Original post by lkdrnw

to be so rude and come to you and tell you that you are fat and have too much junk in the trunk???? I am not the skinniest person around, but seriously, was that necessary? I have tears in my eyes right now
lkdrnw Posted:

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Thanks everyone

040508Bride Posted:

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people are idiots, don't let it bother you. I have a few stories that might make you feel better and make you laugh, idk.....


When I first started working in the Emergency department, I was wearing this ginormous scrubs...they were ordered too big for me so I used to keep them in my locker as backup....well, this kid decided to hurl on me, so i needed my backups. So needless to say, they were a little tentish looking.....
I had to assist this doctor (and ortho guy) in reducing someones fracture...he goes to me
'Hi...i am Dr. Stupidface.......thanks for helping, when are you due???'

In which turn I said, 'Hi. Dr. Stupidface, I'm Angela.....thank god you specialize in bones because I am not pregnant.......and the next time you feel compelled to ask a woman when she is due, make sure she is in labor and crowning'





Next story:
When i left the ER and went to the floors, I gained a litttttle bit of weight. Well, this transported goes to me 'you gainin weight girl cuz you look good'
I said 'what raised you?!?!?' and just walked away.
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by 040508Bride

people are idiots, don't let it bother you. I have a few stories that might make you feel better and make you laugh, idk.....


When I first started working in the Emergency department, I was wearing this ginormous scrubs...they were ordered too big for me so I used to keep them in my locker as backup....well, this kid decided to hurl on me, so i needed my backups. So needless to say, they were a little tentish looking.....
I had to assist this doctor (and ortho guy) in reducing someones fracture...he goes to me
'Hi...i am Dr. Stupidface.......thanks for helping, when are you due???'

In which turn I said, 'Hi. Dr. Stupidface, I'm Angela.....thank god you specialize in bones because I am not pregnant.......and the next time you feel compelled to ask a woman when she is due, make sure she is in labor and crowning'





Next story:
When i left the ER and went to the floors, I gained a litttttle bit of weight. Well, this transported goes to me 'you gainin weight girl cuz you look good'
I said 'what raised you?!?!?' and just walked away.



OMG Ang, you're hysterical! I am not that quick
Gigi08 Posted:

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Aww, I'm sorry, that's just mean!

Gigi08 Posted:

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You can file a complaint with HR.


She's right, you can.
futuremrsfab Posted:

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that's appalling that someone would say something so mean- i'm sorry that she hurt your feelings- but let her know that there is a mob of angry brides coming to kick her nasty behind
lkdrnw Posted:

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Posted by 040508Bride

people are idiots, don't let it bother you. I have a few stories that might make you feel better and make you laugh, idk.....


When I first started working in the Emergency department, I was wearing this ginormous scrubs...they were ordered too big for me so I used to keep them in my locker as backup....well, this kid decided to hurl on me, so i needed my backups. So needless to say, they were a little tentish looking.....
I had to assist this doctor (and ortho guy) in reducing someones fracture...he goes to me
'Hi...i am Dr. Stupidface.......thanks for helping, when are you due???'

In which turn I said, 'Hi. Dr. Stupidface, I'm Angela.....thank god you specialize in bones because I am not pregnant.......and the next time you feel compelled to ask a woman when she is due, make sure she is in labor and crowning'





Next story:
When i left the ER and went to the floors, I gained a litttttle bit of weight. Well, this transported goes to me 'you gainin weight girl cuz you look good'
I said 'what raised you?!?!?' and just walked away.




Thank you
040508Bride Posted:

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Posted by Mici n KC


Posted by 040508Bride

people are idiots, don't let it bother you. I have a few stories that might make you feel better and make you laugh, idk.....


When I first started working in the Emergency department, I was wearing this ginormous scrubs...they were ordered too big for me so I used to keep them in my locker as backup....well, this kid decided to hurl on me, so i needed my backups. So needless to say, they were a little tentish looking.....
I had to assist this doctor (and ortho guy) in reducing someones fracture...he goes to me
'Hi...i am Dr. Stupidface.......thanks for helping, when are you due???'

In which turn I said, 'Hi. Dr. Stupidface, I'm Angela.....thank god you specialize in bones because I am not pregnant.......and the next time you feel compelled to ask a woman when she is due, make sure she is in labor and crowning'





Next story:
When i left the ER and went to the floors, I gained a litttttle bit of weight. Well, this transported goes to me 'you gainin weight girl cuz you look good'
I said 'what raised you?!?!?' and just walked away.



OMG Ang, you're hysterical! I am not that quick





msflesch Posted:

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EXCUSE me WHATTTTT????????????????
I saw you and you are the furthest thing from fat...who would say such a rude thing to you??
Gigi08 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08

I was so mad, I told her at least I can lose weight; what can you do about being ugly?

So rude. Who does that??



Good for you! That's what I often think of in my head...you can lose weight, but if you're ugly...well, you're ugly, and there's only so much you can do!
Gigi08 Posted:

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Posted by bluekat16

Ohh I know exactly what you are talking about.

it's extremely rude. It's like they have nothing better to do then to try to make someone else miserable because they are.

i had an incident happen in our corporate cafeteria. The cahsier asked me if I buy lunch every morning, then proceeded to tell me all I needed to eat was a break, fast and no dinner to lose weight.

I know I'm fat...don't need unsolicited weight loass advice...have been struggling with it my whole life.

Don't let it get you down...just brush it off. I learned to do that.



It's just not as easy as that for some people! People like that need to have weight issues to really understand and have a little sensitivity.
bluekat16 Posted:

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Posted by 040508Bride

people are idiots, don't let it bother you. I have a few stories that might make you feel better and make you laugh, idk.....


When I first started working in the Emergency department, I was wearing this ginormous scrubs...they were ordered too big for me so I used to keep them in my locker as backup....well, this kid decided to hurl on me, so i needed my backups. So needless to say, they were a little tentish looking.....
I had to assist this doctor (and ortho guy) in reducing someones fracture...he goes to me
'Hi...i am Dr. Stupidface.......thanks for helping, when are you due???'

In which turn I said, 'Hi. Dr. Stupidface, I'm Angela.....thank god you specialize in bones because I am not pregnant.......and the next time you feel compelled to ask a woman when she is due, make sure she is in labor and crowning'





Next story:
When i left the ER and went to the floors, I gained a litttttle bit of weight. Well, this transported goes to me 'you gainin weight girl cuz you look good'
I said 'what raised you?!?!?' and just walked away.




Love it
jessnstu08 Posted:

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That totally is redic! I don't understand why people feel the need to comment on other people's body in the work place, it is so inappropriate

This past summer I saw a colleague at a conference that I had not seen in a few year , and she said ' damm girl you packed on the pounds' - I said thanks, I couldn't have figured this out myself when I needed to buy new pants ' - f-ing see u next tuesday , I was MAD ,especially since it was like the pot calling the kettle black

DO NOT listen to people like this ! You are working hard , and DO NOT give some dumb twit that power to make you so upset. I think most women who struggle with weight can understand how hurtful that really is , but she isn't worth it. You might want to talk to her about it, tell her how messed up it was for her to say that or be passive aggressive like I am now with this colleague of mine
Gigi08 Posted:

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Posted by 040508Bride

people are idiots, don't let it bother you. I have a few stories that might make you feel better and make you laugh, idk.....


When I first started working in the Emergency department, I was wearing this ginormous scrubs...they were ordered too big for me so I used to keep them in my locker as backup....well, this kid decided to hurl on me, so i needed my backups. So needless to say, they were a little tentish looking.....
I had to assist this doctor (and ortho guy) in reducing someones fracture...he goes to me
'Hi...i am Dr. Stupidface.......thanks for helping, when are you due???'

In which turn I said, 'Hi. Dr. Stupidface, I'm Angela.....thank god you specialize in bones because I am not pregnant.......and the next time you feel compelled to ask a woman when she is due, make sure she is in labor and crowning'





Next story:
When i left the ER and went to the floors, I gained a litttttle bit of weight. Well, this transported goes to me 'you gainin weight girl cuz you look good'
I said 'what raised you?!?!?' and just walked away.



lkdrnw Posted:

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Posted by msflesch

EXCUSE me WHATTTTT????????????????
I saw you and you are the furthest thing from fat...who would say such a rude thing to you??



Thank you--I can't wait to go to train tomorrow now
msflesch Posted:

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Posted by lkdrnw


Posted by msflesch

EXCUSE me WHATTTTT????????????????
I saw you and you are the furthest thing from fat...who would say such a rude thing to you??



Thank you--I can't wait to go to train tomorrow now



LOL - you should tell Dr Silver - she will be so mad haha - oh my gosh you are going to be so beautiful on your wedding day!!!
lkdrnw Posted:

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Posted by msflesch


Posted by lkdrnw


Posted by msflesch

EXCUSE me WHATTTTT????????????????
I saw you and you are the furthest thing from fat...who would say such a rude thing to you??



Thank you--I can't wait to go to train tomorrow now



LOL - you should tell Dr Silver - she will be so mad haha - oh my gosh you are going to be so beautiful on your wedding day!!!



I know she will!! Thank you--so are you
loislane Posted:

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someone said that to you? That is crazy!!!! People are such jerks sometimes!

Butterfly123 Posted:

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What the hell??? You should curse her out. Why does she make it a part of her day to put you down? Unbelievable! Im sorry you have to deal with a person like that.
AndRecKy Posted:

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i feel your frustation.

i was just eating lunch (im a teacher we eat so early) so this woman who was in the room with me goes 'why are you eating peanut butter that is like sooo fattening'


she made me feel so guilty. i said to her 'yea i guess it is' and got up and left mad:

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