Why do people feel the need

to be so rude and come to you and tell you that you are fat and have too much junk in the trunk???? I am not the skinniest person around, but seriously, was that necessary? I have tears in my eyes right now

OMG! How mean! What a jerk! Tell them they're ugly!

Who said that? What was the context?? Not cool!

who would say such a thing..... i am sorry

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Posted by zoe282

Who said that? What was the context?? Not cool!

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Someone that I work with, and this is not the first time she said it, but I have been working so hard at trying to loose and she knows it
She also told the girl that walks with me at lunch to stop going cause she doesn't need to loose anymore but I def need to

What?? How rude!

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Posted by lkdrnw

to be so rude and come to you and tell you that you are fat and have too much junk in the trunk???? I am not the skinniest person around, but seriously, was that necessary? I have tears in my eyes right now

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OMG WHAT HAPPENED

one of my cousins did that to me once; slapped me on the butt (this was like 10 years ago) and told me I got fat.

I was so mad, I told her at least I can lose weight; what can you do about being ugly?

So rude. Who does that??

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Posted by lkdrnw

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Posted by zoe282

Who said that? What was the context?? Not cool!

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Someone that I work with, and this is not the first time she said it, but I have been working so hard at trying to loose and she knows it
She also told the girl that walks with me at lunch to stop going cause she doesn't need to loose anymore but I def need to

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OK I WOULD FLIP OUT AND HAVE TO KNOCK HER OUT ...............

That is really uncool. Maybe she is just jealous that you are taking the initiative to lose weight

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Posted by lkdrnw

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Posted by zoe282

Who said that? What was the context?? Not cool!

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Someone that I work with, and this is not the first time she said it, but I have been working so hard at trying to loose and she knows it
She also told the girl that walks with me at lunch to stop going cause she doesn't need to loose anymore but I def need to

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ew. what a nasty skank. she's jealous. there's NO other reason people would say that stuff.

Thats Effed up!!! People who say that to someone are people who are self conscious about them self, so they find it neccesary to make you feel down. I cant stand the shiznet! Tell them to piss off!! Men like curves and a little junk in the trunk!! I think you look perfect!!!!!!!!!

Ohh I know exactly what you are talking about.

it's extremely rude. It's like they have nothing better to do then to try to make someone else miserable because they are.

i had an incident happen in our corporate cafeteria. The cahsier asked me if I buy lunch every morning, then proceeded to tell me all I needed to eat was a break, fast and no dinner to lose weight.

I know I'm fat...don't need unsolicited weight loass advice...have been struggling with it my whole life.

Don't let it get you down...just brush it off. I learned to do that.

Some people are just mean and live to hurt others feelings because they are so miserable with who they are.

She should be worrying about her business, not yours.

I'm sorry she upset you.

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Posted by lkdrnw

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Posted by zoe282

Who said that? What was the context?? Not cool!

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Someone that I work with, and this is not the first time she said it, but I have been working so hard at trying to loose and she knows it
She also told the girl that walks with me at lunch to stop going cause she doesn't need to loose anymore but I def need to

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Wow that person neesd to get a clue. I have a big mouth so i'd tell her off...what the heck? who says that. I am positive that person has self esteem issues. You should point out something about her!

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Posted by bluekat16

Ohh I know exactly what you are talking about.

it's extremely rude. It's like they have nothing better to do then to try to make someone else miserable because they are.

i had an incident happen in our corporate cafeteria. The cahsier asked me if I buy lunch every morning, then proceeded to tell me all I needed to eat was a break, fast and no dinner to lose weight.

I know I'm fat...don't need unsolicited weight loass advice...have been struggling with it my whole life.

Don't let it get you down...just brush it off. I learned to do that.

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I am trying, but it not easy--I am very very self-concious(sp) and have always been held up on how I look
This did not help
People suck

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Posted by lkdrnw

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Posted by bluekat16

Ohh I know exactly what you are talking about.

it's extremely rude. It's like they have nothing better to do then to try to make someone else miserable because they are.

i had an incident happen in our corporate cafeteria. The cahsier asked me if I buy lunch every morning, then proceeded to tell me all I needed to eat was a break, fast and no dinner to lose weight.

I know I'm fat...don't need unsolicited weight loass advice...have been struggling with it my whole life.

Don't let it get you down...just brush it off. I learned to do that.

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I am trying, but it not easy--I am very very self-concious(sp) and have always been held up on how I look
This did not help
People suck

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I really know how your feel and I'm sorry that person did that to you. I would tell her some choice words if I were there.

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Posted by lkdrnw

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Posted by bluekat16

Ohh I know exactly what you are talking about.

it's extremely rude. It's like they have nothing better to do then to try to make someone else miserable because they are.

i had an incident happen in our corporate cafeteria. The cahsier asked me if I buy lunch every morning, then proceeded to tell me all I needed to eat was a break, fast and no dinner to lose weight.

I know I'm fat...don't need unsolicited weight loass advice...have been struggling with it my whole life.

Don't let it get you down...just brush it off. I learned to do that.

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I am trying, but it not easy--I am very very self-concious(sp) and have always been held up on how I look
This did not help
People suck

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You can file a complaint with HR.